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    Default Mystery Method is outdated?

    So I was in this forums, I posted a thread of how mystery opens. a vet from that server replied saying "Hello is the best opener, no need for gimmicks" and started saying stuff like "MM is outdated, you don't need to use it"

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    Default Re: Mystery Method is outdated?

    Quote Originally Posted by restoshaman View Post
    So I was in this forums, I posted a thread of how mystery opens. a vet from that server replied saying "Hello is the best opener, no need for gimmicks" and started saying stuff like "MM is outdated, you don't need to use it"
    I might agree... Go out and ask a girl to show her a magic trick...

    She would rightfully laugh in your face...

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    Default Re: Mystery Method is outdated?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    I might agree... Go out and ask a girl to show her a magic trick...

    She would rightfully laugh in your face...
    Well that's not mystery method lol

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    Default Re: Mystery Method is outdated?

    Personally, it's much more enjoyable for me to use natural game and getting investment from the girl. It's also more efficient. Qualify her early instead of using DHVs. Assume higher status instead of bragging and she will invest towards you and break rapport if she doesn't and allow her to regain herself again by qualifying her, then reward her with escalation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    Personally, it's much more enjoyable for me to use natural game and getting investment from the girl. It's also more efficient. Qualify her early instead of using DHVs. Assume higher status instead of bragging and she will invest towards you and break rapport if she doesn't and allow her to regain herself again by qualifying her, then reward her with escalation.
    So basically show interest, then if she doesn't show it back make her work for it again?

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    Default Re: Mystery Method is outdated?

    Quote Originally Posted by restoshaman View Post
    So basically show interest, then if she doesn't show it back make her work for it again?
    Show that you noticed--then reward interest with interest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by grottoMike View Post
    Show that you noticed--then reward interest with interest.
    But that's what mystery told me to do

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    Default Re: Mystery Method is outdated?

    Canned game is unfortunately on it's way out. Magic tricks, mystery openers, or (insert mPUA)'s openers, all are overused and the results became oversaturated. Now the new game is creating the new you. The opener is much less important than how you are in the set, and how you are as a man in general.
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    Default Re: Mystery Method is outdated?

    Dude, Lifestylebible has it right.
    Canned-Game has it's usefulness when you're just starting out. It helps you understand the type of conversation that builds attraction. But even the best canned-game isn't going to work if it comes from someone who's flinchy, can't hold eye contact, and looks tense.
    The most effective way to get better at game is to work on becoming the most badass version of yourself. Because with me for example, I can say THE STUPIDEST thing to a girl, "Hey. I like cats." and because I'm sure of myself, I subcommunicate my dominance without 'trying', and I truly know "I'm the shit, I deserve all the hottest chicks.", she gets super intrigued and wants to touch my sensitive parts.

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    Default Re: Mystery Method is outdated?

    Quote Originally Posted by restoshaman View Post
    So basically show interest, then if she doesn't show it back make her work for it again?
    It's not necessarily interest. Think of it more as approval from you. Interest has a more of a sexual or attraction connotation to it. You can show interest and rapidly escalate early if it is calibrated. Sometimes, I like to build up to it by rewarding her by giving her props for something. For example, depending on how much she's investing, I'll reward her by that amount and say something like "That's awesome..." escalate by appropriate amount, and then giving a relevant statement and asking another qualifying question. If she doesn't invest then I break rapport, like doing a small takeaway and teasing her, and this will get her more invested again, and then I'll qualify her again and give her chance to give a real answer and then I'll reward her. You can check out this post on conversation, that goes into more detail on the reward and punish. lifestylebible and JayBee are right. Don't use canned material.
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