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    Default Helping a Newbie

    So, from this very site, I met up with a 21 year old dude going to college. We've gone to bars twice. He barely speaks English and I want to help him. Any advice. His default move is to aggresively approach women and force them to shake his hand. I told him to stop that. They also can't understand a word he says. I've tried to make it fun that I'm getting him to meet people and that will make girls be somewhat pleasant. He also doesn't wing, he ditches me and aggresively tries to force himself into sets. Obviously, nothing has been working for him at all. Let me know how you pro PUA's would handle...

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    Default Re: Helping a Newbie

    why dont you give him some basic books to read?
    Remember? Knowledge is not growing on trees

    You said you want to help him, but "he barely speaks English" well, if he dont know language, i dont see how he can use this knowledge???
    "Aggresively tries to force himself into sets" <<<< AFC

    You just give yourself answer.

    There are ppl which dont want to admit that or they will just said nah, i am good.

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    Default Re: Helping a Newbie

    Not that aggression is inherently bad.. but I've never seen an AFC be able to pull it off. It's too socially awkward. Though I have gone into sets aggressively and had the girls cracking up, and seen wings do it before as well.

    My advice, unfortunately, is to find a new wing unless you really like this guy and/or are good buddies with him. If he won't listen to your advice, then it's not your fault. Some people don't want change or simply put, aren't ready for it yet. Don't be afraid to find a new one.
    Started game in 2012. Professionally coaching for 2+ years. Strong believer in good karma, if you'd like me to give you a call/skype/email for some quick tips please reach out. Happy to help. It's cool if you're weird, I am too. Just don't be super fucking weird alright? learnrealseduction . com

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