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Thread: When DO you spend money???

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    Default When DO you spend money???

    Understood. Buying drinks is for AFC's. But is there a time during the pick up to spend? If so, when?

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    Default Re: When DO you spend money???

    I'll only buy drinks as a reward for a girl that has invested enough in the interaction (i.e. we have kissed or we've spent some time and she's shared a lot of info about herself) and if I think it'll help the set move forward. You shouldn't buy drinks as an opener because she hasn't worked for it yet. I've lost sets where a girl has invested a considerable amount with me but when I refused to get drinks, it severed the set, but for other sets when I buy drinks after we've already kissed and made out then I'll get laid. Other times you may spend is when you grab a cab or uber back to her place or yours to make logistics easier than spending a lot of time with mass transit that may cost you the set.
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    Default Re: When DO you spend money???

    I guess that's logical. I suppose there's a part of me that feels awkward when talking with her and her glass is empty.
    So she pays if we're only 5 minutes in and she hasn't earned it via kissing/info, etc. Bartender comes by and I just clam up until she pays?

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    Default Re: When DO you spend money???

    This seems like WAY TOO MANY GAMES.....

    I don't even drink myself... so why would I buy a drink for someone else?

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    Default Re: When DO you spend money???

    Ok, got it: so you have no issue (if your target drinks) with having her pay for of her drinks while you
    go through the comfort stage...
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    Default Re: When DO you spend money???

    Quote Originally Posted by HollywoodCA View Post
    Ok, got it: so you have no issue (if your target drinks) with having her pay for of her drinks while you
    go through the comfort stage...
    In theory, but I don't enter that "comfort stage," very often...

    I have trouble initiating a conversation most of the time...

    I don't know how people talk about boring topics all the time...

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    Default Re: When DO you spend money???

    Don't be too freaked out to buy drinks for girls man.. that being said it's best to lean on the side of caution because most guys will buy girls drinks just so they will talk to them. I was a bouncer for a while... saw it way too many times it was desperate lol.

    When you are already hitting it off with a girl, it can be a FANTASTIC isolator. "Come on let's go do a shot" grab her hand and take her to the bar. Then outside, to the corner of the quiet part of the bar, etc.

    Additionally, if a girl is checking me out I may use the "you're fucking adorable, if you behave I may buy you a drink" line on her. Works pretty well also.
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    Default Re: When DO you spend money???

    Quote Originally Posted by HollywoodCA View Post
    I guess that's logical. I suppose there's a part of me that feels awkward when talking with her and her glass is empty.
    So she pays if we're only 5 minutes in and she hasn't earned it via kissing/info, etc. Bartender comes by and I just clam up until she pays?
    Ideally, you will have gone to the bar early and order your drinks first and the girl will order her drink. It's implied that when the woman orders her drink she will pay for it. I wouldn't just stop talking to her when the bartender to comes by because it would just put pressure on her. I would just continue qualifying her.

    If the bartender asks you guys what you two want to do, you could look a the girl and see her response. She will usually look at you to be leading and see where you want to take it.

    You have to be calibrated and decide based on the level of investment she has given you if you should go dutch at this point if you guys are collecting the tabs or you could say you'll get this round and she could get the next round. Sometimes you can get enough investment within 5 minutes with kissing/info. It has to be calibrated.
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