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Thread: What did i do wrong? - Pickup 1

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    Default Re: What did i do wrong? - Pickup 1

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I guess for me I always tended to get rapport after building comfort. But the process isn't so strictly linear.

    Comfort to me is just getting to know her hobbies, her job, where she grew up, her favorite genre of music/movies. Anything that has to do with "getting to know her."

    When I think of rapport I think of that point where she feels you understand her world and she can feel safe making herself vulnerable to you. Like when she tells you a terrible story from her past and it's so unique that she hasn't met anyone that would understand what she went through until you come along and happen to have genuinely had the same exact experience. Then you both share something together. And understand each other a bit better and are more sympathetic towards each other. At this point you can safely absorb into each other. Like in the movies when they just lay in bed for hours and hours talking and having sex for like 3 or 4 days straight. That actually does happen in real life lol. To me that's rapport.
    i totally agree with you on that concept. But that's your own theory and not a mainstrem method in the community like M3 model. I'm pretty sure your way can be effective, but i got confused there because i thought you were talking about a public model that's popular. However i do agree, i should've built rapport of the type you were talking about instead just only "getting to know her".

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    Default Re: What did i do wrong? - Pickup 1

    Not necessarily my friend. I'm talking about C2. Where you build a connection. That's where rapport is. I just don't think it's emphasized enough on how important it is. A lot of beginning PUAs think it's automatically needy to show you like the girl at any capacity and ignore something like C2 or rapport building where it is encouraged to show your real self a bit. Because it puts you in a bit of a vulnerable state, but so is she and they don't realize this I don't think. It's odd to me that it's actually shunned to admit you actually like a woman and show it when it comes to the PUA community. That's because they think everything happens in attraction phase where you show very little interest in her and assume that translates to the entire interaction you have with her. At some point you have to show her you like her. That's what A3 is for, but again it is a highly underrated step.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: What did i do wrong? - Pickup 1

    I think you push up to much to go on a date and you seems disperate


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