Re: Bf destroyers and other tactics fail. Need Help!!!
One word, be better. There is nothing you can obtain in this life merely wanting one must persevere!! From what I've noticed the "BF Destroyer" is a fool's game. Acknowledge him and you lose instant incredible amounts of value, ignore him and you suffocate a similar fate. Let's cut to the chase. I've learned long ago I can neither way whether I talk smack about him or talk good I still end up the loser.
So what is a man to do with a "boyfriend" obstacle? For one there are single girls go for them. But if there is one girl you are stuck on there is only one trick. Befriend them both but at the same time sow disharmony among the ranks.
To the BF talk about other chicks on your roster (as there should be) and to the girl run game on her like she is just "a friend" no Romantic fascinations, in fact be happy for them!! Eventually you will lose interest being friends with them and if not you will be lined up for a breakup being ready to say I "told you this guy was like all the others" and you become rebound guy.
Establish this image in her mind that hey you're legit with friends but let her know your intentions is to be the rebound backboard. That's better than a doormat.
Anyways I saw a Facebook relationship flourish and then crash because even though they became roommates I adapted the philosophy "he can have her" now she ditched him and single again so I am "the rebound guy" her Spring fling me thinks.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.