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    Default Does anybody else think that getting pussy is not worth all this?

    To me, it's not even worth having an awkward conversation to try to get into a girls pants. Let alone put on a phony smile or pretend I care about what she's saying.

    Why is it worth all this to you?

    I'm not talking to the virgins here.

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    Default Re: Does anybody else think that getting pussy is not worth all this?

    Some people do Game to better themselves. In the beginning its all about the girl and getting lays but as you get better and gain experience you'll start to notice a change, it becomes not about the girl anymore but about bettering yourself and gaining knowledge from talking to these females. Also some people want a girlfriend. Everyone has a different motive... That's just what I noticed with myself though, everyone have their own reason for being a PUA or a wannabe.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Does anybody else think that getting pussy is not worth all this?

    Ding Ding Ding Ding!!!

    Now we have a winner redstar and marvilo.

    The funny thing about game is that it is more of an entrance to real self improvement and success... but if you label it as that, it doesn't create nearly as much of a motivational drive to bettering yourself than "get laid". Your reptilian brain is the most powerful motivator (anger, sex, sadness, etc). Telling people they will get laid by doing this taps into that reptilian brain.

    The transition occurs when one realizes "hey I can use this same mentality for learning... ANYTHING". I remember when I hit that with learning the drums, business, networking, etc. The people who stick with this are the type of people who will be really successful.. not just with girls but in life in general.

    Keep improving gents!
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    Default Re: Does anybody else think that getting pussy is not worth all this?

    Unless she's really hot, then that's a different story...

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    Default Re: Does anybody else think that getting pussy is not worth all this?

    Personally I like the challenge of a pick up. Learning new things or relearning what I forgot.

    You can have dry spells and they do suck and make you question a lot of stuff. Like what's the point of all this. But that won't cross your mind once they start coming one after another. Don't give up.

    P. S. It only seems like effort because you are rewiring your brain about how you view interactions with women. It gets easier and becomes second nature.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Does anybody else think that getting pussy is not worth all this?

    Getting a wife duh' I still remember that awful oneitis I got for that HB9 store clerk in 2011. So bad but I couldn't talk to her. Just stood there like a tomb.

    "can caan I have haa have your phone number??" As I looked deathly ill at the register been up till 4 am the night before thinking about her and couldn't eat.

    She said I will never forget

    "No I work too much"

    And I couldn't take a hint so I approached again and again and finally she screamed "I am not interested!!" Devastating man. I was 28 years old. Should be old enough to know how to handle girls at that point I was clueless chasing fantasies.

    But something changed in 2012 I became a Pick Up Artist. 5 years later what has changed? A lot! Do I have a wife? No. But I have a girl. I don't want to be married right now man or I would. I fell in love with the game. I love playing. I upped my game by joining the gym, getting fit, and getting tatted up (like a gym dude Alex Turner). Then I work on all this finess with my wardrobe and get ups and I tell you they are getting crazier my tatts fancier. I am a rocket shooting into the night blue sky.

    So is it worth it well that depends on the night but yes every Summer I am flowing in p$$y. I am just so good now I just can't fathom what the hell was wrong with me back then. Now a phone number is not a challenge anymore. A relationship now that's a challenge!

    So yes I was AFC now a Alpha Male Jedi Master. I no longer play the game. I let the game play me. So so far. From that boy. Now at 32 a HB10 in my rotation I am gaming her and SHE is talking soulmate a not me mate. Her mom is saying something is afoot. On a freaking mermaid man. Every guy wants one! Well I get see her again on Sunday. I'll prolly be in a Relationship this year with a mermaid or unicorn. My game has peaked. Now I only get the best chicks. Even better than that chick that blew me out to become a PUA. So yes I have to work my tail off but when I am with them I dunno I fade away. Something changed. Now I am the pursued. The aloof. The fantasy.

    So when you say well why are you still doing it. I am doing it for the ego boost. Too much sex and your dvck would fall off. I am not in it to bang 100 girls. Or even 50 girls. I only want to bang a chick I love. I know sounds dumb. No I am not talking marriage just like a soulmate connection then I would sleep with them if they were a badass gf. My current targets are worth it. I am more invested in the relationship but with a super high scale chick like a 9 or 10. So I just tool 6's. You bang them great I walk all over them. So yes I will still hookup but not just anyone. They have to be special.

    Anyway I am still afraid some girl will love me and I cannot love her back cuz my game is like about to blow open and at the same time my relationship skills are peaking so me and Strip Club girl are STILL going. Like I am top dog like always. Her mom said I was right for her Mr Right. But I dunno she is perfect. But I still wanna see what I can do this year now that I have become a master. So it's like I am divided. I mastered the pickup but here this HB10 after one date saying "it's all you" is a big weight. What can I say? I cannot wait to see her again but until we sleep together I will game other girls. But right now I am on her radar big time.
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    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: Does anybody else think that getting pussy is not worth all this?

    If you cannot get pussy naturally, then the pursuit of game forces you to introspect deeply for a prolonged period of time. This is something most people never do, and is very, very healthy.

    I've gone through several phases in the three months that I've dedicated myself to daygame -

    1. At first I was a virgin and my goal from daygame was to be f*****g lots of beautiful women, to have them love me and adore me. This was essentially all I wanted to do with my life. And if I could achieve my goal I would be fulfilled.

    2. As a result I think, of banging some girls, meeting lots of 'beautiful' but c****sh and shallow women, and of being rejected a lot. My views began to change.

    3. I began to look more deeply into myself "am I unattractive?""Am I of a lower value than this person?" I realized no, and began to become more centred in my self, I was developing self esteem. My personal perception of what made a girl beautiful and valuable also subtly changed

    4. This made me more attractive to the women I was pursuing and I began to bang more of them. No longer was I trying to be 'unreactive,' 'less invested in their opinions of me' or 'willing to walk away' - I actually was!

    5. As I began naturally to value my own opinion of myself first and foremost before women's opinions or anyone else's, and as I began to f**k and receive the affection of more girls. The emperor had less clothes. I began to question why I was dedicating most of my life to chasing female affection and love.

    6. I've now realized from reflection and from reading lots of books, that it probably has something to do with the way my parents related to me at a young age, and my subsequent experiences growing up. I'm still working on this, but as you can see making this effort is leading me to a new understanding of women and most importantly of myself.

    7.This is helping me profoundly in most other areas of life. I'm becoming more honest, real and confident in myself. Attraction is becoming spontaneous, I recognize now that some people are c***s and that some of those people are women. Not everyone shares values and interests. And I can move on far more gracefully when a woman isn't attracted to me, that's her loss.

    Experiences in game are often unpleasant, sometimes you do or say things that are manipulative, emotionally jarring, unkind or that you regret. But this only leads you to stronger convictions of what to value, what's important, and the way that you're going to conduct yourself, and going to live.

    It's not an easy business to do this, to come to these kind of insights.

    You have to focus a lot of time and energy on approaching and interacting with women with the ultimate goal of trying to seduce them. Only then, with your mind sufficiently keyed in and focused, and with enough necessary reference experience, will important realizations be made. And the path to greater social maturity, confidence, attractiveness and honest expression be attained.

    I would recommend maybe reading Mark Manson's great book:'Models,' which details the ways to develop true confidence and honest communication. I found this book insightful and encouraging. It's a little different from what you hear from most 'Gurus.'

    Reading any book is like planting seeds in your mind. It can give you encouragement as well. But ultimately these seeds need to be watered with experience if they are to become real to you, if they are to become your ideas and truths. I recommend spending at least six hours a week trying to meet, interact with, and seduce new women- if - you want to get an understanding of social dynamics and achieve peace and fulfilment in this area of your life. Any less and you will not achieve the necessary amount of reference experience and mental focus.

    Maybe you should also consider daygame. Nightgame is most certainly not for everyone, nor are nightclubs for that matter, and you may find that the conversation is more stimulating with girls that you meet on the street or in coffee shops. Plus there's a beautiful feeling of strength and self reliance that comes from meeting a nice girl on the street and then having an intimate relationship with her. If you want to try daygame but are new to the concept I recommend you check out Yad.


    He is basically the inventor and pioneer of daygame. His own story is inspiring, and he's a positive guy, unlike some of the more sleazy and narcissistic characters in this community. At the moment there's a free set of instructional videos on the site. One on the approach, one on conversation, one on texting, and one on escalation. These are literally all you need to get started. That's daygame.com

    This video is good also, for an understanding of the full model - Daygame: The Essentials | Yad | Full Length HD
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfKUbtV0rj4

    And this is an inspiring video of a speech given by Yad on a London street describing his journey -
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNxwHlD1g6o

    I hope this helps mate, do not be discouraged, things are tough at first. On my first day doing this I approached 50 women, I only got one number she later flaked. Four days later I lost my virginity to a Peruvian tourist. Remember that above all this journey is about becoming a beautiful man.

    Best regards,
    Wolf.


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    Default Re: Does anybody else think that getting pussy is not worth all this?

    I'm still an AFC. I have a lot of improvement to undergo. My 2 cents on why I want girls is because good attention from girls floods my mind with a euphoric feeling. I have never done ecstacy but to give you an idea what I feel like when I'm hanging out with a girl or find out some girl thinks i'm attractive, I just get this really good euphoric feeling, i'm normally quiet but i'll get euphoric and talkative whenever I get good attention from girls. That's why I'm willing to go through the trouble. I don't know if other people get the same feelings as dramatic as me, because I feel really really really good from their attention but that's most likely because I have been alone my whole life.


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