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    Default Re: How do you gain social status?

    Quote Originally Posted by restoshaman View Post
    haha nawww man, it's the little things you do too man!
    When you're talking to a girl, are you "pecking"? You want to lean back and make HER talk to YOU. That's an example of DHV.
    That makes sense. Maybe throw in some " cat string theory? "

    It all boils down to keeping the mindset that I am the prize.

    This would be all well and good if life were eternal, but I'm growing old and I can't reproduce by myself...

    What do you think about that thought process?

    Body language is a hard thing to fix because it's hard to watch yourself.

    It's one thing to THINK I'm the prize, but what would make it actually true? And how do I think I have higher value but not be narcissistic?

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    Default Re: How do you gain social status?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Why are you saying that people with money are fake?

    I own 24% of a company that is about to buy our first apartment complex.

    When I go out, I drink water, juice, or coffee and I tip about $2 every time. I don't "buy out the club," nor would I want to.

    I wasn't born into an extremely rich family. This is new to me. Granted, I wasn't born in the slums, either. I have been homeless before for months at a time.

    I know a millionaire who owns a painting company. He built the company from scratch. What's fake about that? (but this is getting off topic, I'm just saying I'm a little obsessive about my business to tell someone that I train octopuses)...

    I don't understand the difference between survival and replication value for a male. What is it? And although Mystery came up with these theories, I don't see him having any value at all. He is not rich and he probably couldn't fight to save his life.

    And as far as gold diggers, I never said I was giving anything to anyone.
    dude bro I never said money was a bad thing. Money is probably the best thing. You're not seeing the picture I painted. I said game is more valuable than money. Because money doesn't =girls (unless you buy hookers)!

    What did I say? I shouldn't have to repeat myself. Anyways you are still thinking about money=status and that is very counterproductive thinking to getting girls. Use money to go out and meet as many and take as many chicks out as you can. That's common sense. Game gets you the girl money only gets you to the destination. But you have to take action man. You have to do the job though. Money won't do it for you. You're thinking money entitles you it does not. I have gotten girls feeding me all the validation just by showing up with my game on point.

    You may have all this money but I have all this game. I have something money cannot buy. Do you know Coach Corey Wayne wants $800 an hour to "coach men"!!!? That's for suckers who live thinking like that. My girl has a fake rack, veneers, a degree, and hot as hell. That is something money cannot buy. Money can't buy love but it can buy happiness. There is only one way to get a chick to like you. Learn game.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack

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    Default Re: How do you gain social status?

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    dude bro I never said money was a bad thing. Money is probably the best thing. You're not seeing the picture I painted. I said game is more valuable than money. Because money doesn't =girls (unless you buy hookers)!

    What did I say? I shouldn't have to repeat myself. Anyways you are still thinking about money=status and that is very counterproductive thinking to getting girls. Use money to go out and meet as many and take as many chicks out as you can. That's common sense. Game gets you the girl money only gets you to the destination. But you have to take action man. You have to do the job though. Money won't do it for you. You're thinking money entitles you it does not. I have gotten girls feeding me all the validation just by showing up with my game on point.

    You may have all this money but I have all this game. I have something money cannot buy. Do you know Coach Corey Wayne wants $800 an hour to "coach men"!!!? That's for suckers who live thinking like that. My girl has a fake rack, veneers, a degree, and hot as hell. That is something money cannot buy. Money can't buy love but it can buy happiness. There is only one way to get a chick to like you. Learn game.
    Corey Wayne is stupid.

    So what is " game? " I guess I'm back to square one.

    Also, I don't have "all this money," yet... This is in the future.

    I think there is a point where increased income does not matter anymore. There is no real difference between $1,000,000/year and 5,000,000/year... You can only buy so many things.

    I don't get what "game on point," even means. It's like you're speaking a language I don't understand.

    I wake up thinking about apartment complexes, not girls.

    What needs to change?

    What is status if it's not money? Can you give me examples of people that have status? Other than the president or the owner of a billion dollar business?

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    Default Re: How do you gain social status?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Corey Wayne is stupid.

    So what is " game? " I guess I'm back to square one.

    Also, I don't have "all this money," yet... This is in the future.

    I think there is a point where increased income does not matter anymore. There is no real difference between $1,000,000/year and 5,000,000/year... You can only buy so many things.

    I don't get what "game on point," even means. It's like you're speaking a language I don't understand.

    I wake up thinking about apartment complexes, not girls.

    What needs to change?

    What is status if it's not money? Can you give me examples of people that have status? Other than the president or the owner of a billion dollar business?

    We answered this in the first post of this thread, please don't just read it but understand it.

    Quote Originally Posted by restoshaman View Post
    Here's some examples (this is from mystery so people might "hate" and think its outdated)

    "What men see attractive in women is simply her replication value"
    "What women see attractice in men is his surival & replication value"

    If you see a girl with an ugly man just for his money, she's only there for his survival value, but rarely his replication value. That means she'll follow him around but they won't have sex, unless the man DHV then he might just.

    1. preselection
    (Being seen with other women)
    2. leader of men
    (You are the main attraction, everyone's listening to you)
    3. protector of loved one's
    (Only saying good things about your group of friends/family)
    4. willingness to remote, change emotions.
    (Know when it's time to be playful, romantic, serious, etc)
    5. Non Needy
    (self explanatory, don't come off as you NEED the girl rather than it'll be cool to have her)
    6. social intellegence
    (self explanatory as well, an exmaple would be if a girl looks at you and starts smiling, you aren't going to use an in-direct opener(btw ppl in this forums just recommend you just use direct openers)
    7. Negs
    (this iod is also a DHV)
    8. strong frame
    (This is how you pass her "shit test" by believing what you want not what she says)
    9. interesting knoledge
    (Don't talk about shit that's boring or shit that she already knows)
    10. emotional stimulation
    (I'm trying to give an example for each point, this ones hard, search up "anchoring" I believe I could relate it to that.)
    11. being socially in demand
    (People asking for ur approval)
    12. connecting conversationally
    (self explanatory, this ones a no brainer)
    13. unaffected
    (that means you're unaffected by her looks or if she rejects you)

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    Default Re: How do you gain social status?

    Well I don't know... Maybe I'm just not cut out for this the way you guys say it... But also, I seem to do a lot better (or have better potential) than a lot of guys out there that I see at bars that all they do is drink and watch television...

    Don't confuse me for a sugar daddy or a sucker when it comes to giving out money... But in REALITY, I've seen some really hot bartenders (I know most of the bartenders in town) fawn over guys that tip them really well... These girls have kids to feed and are not always in good financial situations...

    This is why I disagree with the one person who said "don't go after bartenders, they're out of your league," or something like that...

    I know some very attractive bartenders who have trouble keeping their electricity on and don't even own a car... Bartending is not all that lucrative compared to other businesses or lawyers, etc...

    I spend my days improving my real estate and competing with large corporate apartment complexes... I really don't think saying that I train octopuses is a good idea...

    One of the biggest players in my city is a lawyer... Everyone knows he's a lawyer... He would be pretty stupid to tell people he trains octopuses (I know it's octopi, but I like octopuses better)...

    Yet ALSO, I know a guy who made so much money trading stocks that he drives a Ferrari and parks it outside of a club where he also works as a doorman and I don't think he gets any...

    I am committed to making this work... It's hard to "want" anything from a woman that isn't babies and I don't really want that right now... So what am I looking for? I really don't know...

    I am going to get on anxiety medicine because I think this will help me be more social when I go out...

    But if I'm building a real estate portfolio that will be worth BILLIONS, you don't think I should tell someone? It's pretty time consuming and involves a lot of thought and is actually more interesting to me then meeting women, sad to say...

    Although I do like getting head... But I'm not going to give away half my fortune in a failed marriage with no prenuptial or give her hundreds of thousands of dollars a little at a time during the whole thing...


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