Re: How do you gain social status?
^^True Dat. Think of it in terms of Confectionary Sugar and Real Sugar. A Man with game is like real sugar (alpha male). A man with money is like confectionary sugar (sugar daddy) and a man with no game and no money is like salt.
With that said in addition to what's previously mentioned most chicks (high value chicks like HB9+) WANT THE REAL DEAL aka they want their cake and want to eat it too. In essence they want a Man WITH game and WITH money. But normally they will go for a man with game first and if he is not want she wants then she will go for the fake dude with cash. This usually means they are fake too and just gold diggers anyway.
Let's put this on a real level. Most and I mean most IF NOT ALL just want a man with some game who can take care of himself. I have never been asked how much money I make, what kinda of car I drive, where I live, etc. These things are not in the demographic unless you are making it a point you have money to impress her then of course she will know and try to take advantage. Because I don't have money I make it a point to avoid the issue and I do just fine. It does hurt me in some situations but for the most part I do better than the dude buying out the Club,
In reference to having what you call "high social status" this is a bit of loaded gun which I care not to fire off right now. But I am willing to talk about "Social Proof" which to me is more important.
Becoming a regular, getting to know the staff of a venue (bartenders, waitresses, etc), befriending your competition, etc.
In doing these things (gaining social proof) you are setting yourself apart from the rampant douchebaggery running around. You have all seen it. The "hoovers at the Bar" houndering the hot bartender for HOURS ON END thinking they are the "sh!t" when I spend about 10 min and 10 min and 10 min. I go off in short bursts and I never linger (I am a busy man being a PUA and all gotta approach). The difference is they hoover for hours and get nowhere and I come in and approach 5-6 times with a bartender I really like but I come in hard and fast. "hey you look great" "what's your name" "I know the other bartenders here"
Bartender game to me is easy. Get to know the other bar staff and when I approach a new girl I am all over her "You getting me in next week" "we taking shots later". This is so far beyond the stupid hoovering of "Oh I have this much money" from most of the doucebags in the Club.
If you want Social Proof that is just an example but in essence social proof is just "not being a threat to any one particular girl" and "having value with women". You do this by knowing your surroundings, approaching chicks, getting to the staff (if possible). You don't have to be a try hard this stuff comes naturally for me it is fun. If I was just approaching girls all night I might lose steam. But building social proof, getting to know the venue, approaching girls becomes like a process for me.
I used to be stuck on that "one girl" you know be so honed in would talk to no one else and even stared for hours just by the wall or something. This is TERRIBLE for your inner game. Me being outgoing and open-minded really opens you up so that you are already in a talkative mood when said girl approaches or approach time comes. That's just the gist of it but I could say much more. Just a taste for now.
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