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    Default A valid reason? Boundaries

    I have been seeing a girl for a few months and she is not ready to commit, blah blah.
    Lately she has been kinda bitchy if I can't come over when she wants etc.. I'd like to keep her around for sex and whatever.
    So my questions are.. Is there a good strategy for this?
    Also maybe more importantly.. Since supposedly we might become a couple at some point..
    She wants to be at my place when she wants...
    She has cooked and bought groceries and other things for me a handful of times,
    but it wasn't that long ago she expressed we should remain friends for now, although she acts as if we are together... I do trust her, I'm just not really that cool with it and i'm not sure if I have a valid reason for it.. She will be staying with me this Friday and I have something to do on Sat and I'm not really cool with it if she says she wants to hang around there... I might be having this other girl over... Considering all these factors, what might be my play here and how can I set that boundary with good reason?

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    Default Re: A valid reason? Boundaries

    It may sound cliché but you might want to be honest. For strategic reasons.

    It'll let her know you aren't waiting around for her while she's playing head games. So she's inclined to open up to you about her feelings and expectations. And she seems the type that would show up unannounced and you don't want to be caught in a lie like that if you see a serious future with her.

    Of course there's always just saying you need space.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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