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    So, as an AFC, I would always have one GF at a time. Now, as I build a roster - I wanted to know how you keep them in line and organized. Any tips on how often you see each one, what to say if they ask if you're exclusive to them - How to balance your work life and keep your harem going. And how many do you have at a time? What's been too many and why? When do you cut one of them off?
    This is new territory for me.
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    Default Re: Your harem

    Typically this is how I operate.

    I keep one girl that I am usually talking to almost everyday, or snapping, etc. She has to be hot enough/cool/good at sex, and keep an open relationship with her. I get close to her, and she gets close to me, and also I can booty call whenever (she can as well it's mutually beneficial). But I make sure she knows that this is more than likely not going to turn exclusive, and she is welcome to do whatever she wants, but we won't talk about it.

    Additionally, I will go out and have one night stands. Eventually the one girl may fizzle out, and out of the one night stand population I pick one that has good qualities and I get along with and that becomes the next open relationship.

    I don't keep a "harem" of girls around that I can just call up, I just get my pickup one night stand skills up and use those when I want to.

    I have just operated this way for 2 or so years because I like both worlds, having someone close to me that I can open up to and vice versa (and the sex gets kinkier as we go), and additionally keep my game sharp, with no strings attached.

    You gotta develop what you want though, you may actually want a girlfriend or a wife. We all go for different things in pickup.

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    Very helpful, Ronnie. I've never had an open relationship conversation with a girl in my life. Not sure how/when to discuss that. I would assume they'd bail out right then and there. Guess I'm wrong on that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HollywoodCA View Post
    Very helpful, Ronnie. I've never had an open relationship conversation with a girl in my life. Not sure how/when to discuss that. I would assume they'd bail out right then and there. Guess I'm wrong on that.
    How many are in yours right now?

    And how often do you see them?

    Can I ask how old you are and are you in school? Are you a student at a university? Do you spend most of your time at work? What's your life like?

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    Right now 2, for the first time. It's all new, so I'm seeing each once a week and making excuses why I'm busy - in order to keep both interested.
    I'm an adult and work in television.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HollywoodCA View Post
    Right now 2, for the first time. It's all new, so I'm seeing each once a week and making excuses why I'm busy - in order to keep both interested.
    I'm an adult and work in television.
    Thank you, Red Star.
    Do they know about each other and do they see other people?

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    No they don't and I wasn't sure how to tackle that subject.
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