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    Moses C. is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Alot of anxiety approaching older women

    I'm 23yo. I've been going out for a week now and find it very hard/awkward approaching older women (27+) since we have nothing in common and they reject me alot more than girls my age. It's very difficult approaching girls my age too (since i've only been doing this for a week) but older women is even harder.

    Should i just approach girls my age for right now, then when i get more confident start approaching older women? It's extremely difficult and nerve-wracking approaching them so i feel it would be better if i build confidence with girls my age first then move up.

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    Default Re: Alot of anxiety approaching older women

    Hey dude,

    If you've only been going out for a week don't sweat it! Continue practicing, and refining your skills. I hate to say this *whispers* but you are already higher than the majority of guys in the world, just by going out .

    As much as I wish it was... this is not a light switch you turn on and suddenly the hottest MILF's are flying you out to their mansions and falling on your dick. It is a process, one which (I know many on here will agree) comes with the fruits of a lifetime man.

    I say just go out and get comfortable with people and girls in general. See what works for you in both populations, but continue approaching both demographics. You will begin to get rejected less as you build more abundance, and more skillsets.

    I hope to see some field reports man! Even if you get blown out. We all have funny ass ones from some point in our journey.


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