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    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
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    Default Anxiety like a motherfucker...

    I hope I don't get kicked off for this...

    A few days ago, I got an escort (no big deal, done it many times)...

    Before we started, she said I seemed really nervous...

    Then, when we got going, it was fine...

    The purpose of this post is that it is this anxiety that is killing me "in the field." I am this nervous ALL THE TIME, but when I'm doing it I'm fine...

    I don't know if I should just get on anxiety medication or what?

    I never realized how much anxiety I had prior to this.

    After it was over, she said something like, "why were you so nervous beforehand?"...

    I just said "I don't know."

    But there's not a whole lot of eye contact going on, other than when she was sucking my **** and trying to look at me to be sexy...

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    Default Re: Anxiety like a motherfucker...

    Find normal gf, dude.
    You dont need medivs for this, thats because you are not relaxed, you just need to accept fear and do stuff which can make you happy,
    take a shower in morning, shave, more hang out with happy people, stuff as usual...

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    Default Re: Anxiety like a motherfucker...

    One small trick for anxiety, is laughter. Bring a good buddy wingman out on the field and when you fuck up, you can laugh about it together.

    Neurologically, your body releases what is called GABA (basically anti anxiety neurotransmitter, what xanax makes you release) when you are laughing and/or drinking alcohol. This inhibits the uptake of all the nasty anxiety hormones such as adrenaline, noradrenaline, etc etc.

    I have crippling, I mean fucking CRIPPLING speech anxiety. I was the least charismatic, weird, awkward kid and had so many bad experiences with speeches that it's super deep for me to get over. However my job requires me to do therapeutic presentations to suicidal patients. As I walk up, my heart is going fucking crazy, and my eyes keep darting towards the door and imagining just quitting my job and living homeless. But I know if I can just get myself and/or them to laugh a little right away, it will all be gone. So the first thing I do is say something funny. Anything to get myself to laugh and hopefully them too, and literally all the anxiety is gone almost instantly.

    Just a little tip

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    Default Re: Anxiety like a motherfucker...

    Quote Originally Posted by bojan.95 View Post
    Find normal gf, dude.
    You dont need medivs for this, thats because you are not relaxed, you just need to accept fear and do stuff which can make you happy,
    take a shower in morning, shave, more hang out with happy people, stuff as usual...
    But I don't want ONE... I want casual hookups...

    And this anxiety is the social anxiety that prevents me from making approaches...

    It's weird because I don't have social anxiety is nearly any other situation other than talking (or in my case, not talking to), a pretty girl...


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