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    Default Try Hard Question

    As I grow doing this, I've come to realize that I was the kind of guy who always tried too hard with girls. Try hard to impress, try hard to look as good as I can, try hard to wash my lousy car to make it look better, always compliment them every time I see them, etc. What are your experience of 1. what try hard examples are to you and 2. How you changed that specific action so that it is no longer 'try hard?'
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    Default Re: Try Hard Question

    I would puff my chest out a lot and acted like nothing could phase me. Like even getting hit by a bus wouldn't move me lol.

    It really just takes practice and re-wiring your thought process. This tryhard behavior stems from the idea of women being on a pedestal in your mind and that you need to win them over. THATS what you have to re-wire and instead teach yourself that you are a man of value and want women to prove to YOU why they are worth your time. Of course there's an art to it so you can't just go up to every woman and act like that lol. We aren't all famous rock stars ya know. But that's why they call it Pickup ARTS.
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    Default Re: Try Hard Question

    Very helpful. Can you give me a couple of examples of how I can implement that idea of getting her to prove to me that she's worthy of me. Is it just like a questionnaire? Is it asking questions to test her intellect?
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