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    furio is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default So much stress, stay in stable relationship or jump into a new adventure?

    So i have a girlfriend for 4 years now, never had any issues during these 4 years, mainly because were both no drama and positive type of people. Ive had an ex before this girl with some serious border line issues, i got played with without a condom, it was pathetic so when i met my current girlfriend it was like heaven.

    Every weekend i go out with my friend and flirt and socialise with girls, i met this really cute girl who for the first time of my life gave me butterflies type of feeling, been chilling with a her and a group of people for couple weeks now but she is single and knows i got a girlfriend, we flirt but i cant take it any step further.

    Ive been stressing so much to breakup with my girlfriend and chase the soulmate type of girl but something is telling me the grass always seems greener at the other side so wjy risk a stable relationship for an adventure with a really cool girl?

    Is there anyone with some solid advice or experience with this? I was thinking chilling with her more 1v1 to get her to know more but i think she wont like this as i got a girlfriend and she is righy ofc.

    - Furio

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    Von is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: So much stress, stay in stable relationship or jump into a new adventur

    I have meet a girl who gave me butterfly and even electricity, I have to admit my ''seduction game'' wasn't great when we meet and I went straight into the relationship mood. She was disinterered at the beginning, got her interest up, we did an activity, we kissed, we started texting/talking (I was showing neediness/eager) more and 2 days later she friendzone. Than at an event she get jealous cause she sees I dont orbit around her (even my friend told me that she looked piss/jealous).... than NC for 3 weeks. I ask her out, she bring a gf.... I lost my frame while the girl in the bathroom, girl come back, pay my drink and left. And this girl text me how disappointed she is of me, I had to be clear to ask her 1on1, she said she wanted to be friend

    Next time I see them: March 4 at a similar event where we all meet. ..... Not that I vented out. Here's for you

    So for me it was a big mistake, she just wanted an orbiter or I made myself one after we kissed.

    For this girl, if you relationship is not going well, give it a shoot. But also you are a guy, you meet a girl you find to your taste but you know she's off limit, probably thats why you want to know her more and unless you have commitment do nothing to your relationship. She could just be friendly.

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    furio is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: So much stress, stay in stable relationship or jump into a new adventur

    Thank you for your response, the part about being off limit is quite true, i think after 4 years of being in a relationship it becomes somewhat static so when you hit it off with another girl you want to have it but when you have it you will most likely feel like you made a mistake since the chase is gone and irritations come into play.

    I will continue to game her and see where things are going, i got no legit reasons to break-up with my current girlfriend. Breaking-up because another girl seems more fun and is twice as hot does not feel right to me to break-up but something inside of me does tell me to get to know her better if she is open to it.

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    Default Re: So much stress, stay in stable relationship or jump into a new adventur

    I know how you feel. I was also in a relationship for 5 years where the girl although a beauty our relationship was coming to an end and it did. Althought it wasn't for an other girl but just a of mutual understanding. Alot of hot girls was around me at the time, until I got single, now it seems harder..... People love to seek what they can't have.... sometimes they succeed sometimes they don't ..... it part of the game

    You will know if you relationship is falling appart if the girl seems more and more unstable and insecure when you go out.

    Keep gaming her but know this, she might be in just for a trill or leading you off. She knows your ''unavailable'' thus act more ''seductive''. If she doesn't say ''yes'' to a date than you'll have your answer.

    Otherwise, don't do shit that hurt your relationship for a ''ghost'' and go recreate intimacy with your girl.... it's normal after 4 years to feel ''confortable and uneventful'' Love is work


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