Re: How to get women to pay-
How long have you been seeing this girl? Are you exclusive? Honestly a good girlfriend, at least in my opinion, would have no problem sharing expenses especially something like an expensive trip. It really depends on the dynamic of your relationship.
The way I get out of paying for dates is that I don't go on dates. I tell them that we are only hanging out as friends and not to try anything funny. So they either pay for themselves or I'll pay for one aspect and she'll pay the other. Like I'll pay for the movie and she'll pay for dinner. Once in awhile they will volunteer to pay for everything and I'll simply say that they better not expect anything from me when they drop me off at home cause I'm not that easy. And usually I'll take care of the next time we go out. Cause you don't want to be a douche lol.
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