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Thread: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

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    Default Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    So I meet this girl last night at an event, she was with her sister. We got stuff in common including our ex-boss (we worked at different time for the same person)

    So I started asking her stuff to build conversation. She was my type but clearly didnt feel she was into the conversation or its just me, her sister was busy with my friend.

    Anyway I used some lines I use on POF: ''which disney movie would you be etc...''

    She did answer: ''XXXXX'

    My reply got her to say : ''I feel like I am under an interview!''

    What you guys would say? (she's not the first to say that but I can't remember what I replied back than but I got her number but no date)

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    Default Re: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    If a girl says she feels like she's being interviewed, then you are not making enough statements prior to the next follow up question you are giving. You should also be rewarding her answers with verbal approvals like, "Oh that's cool/awesome/etc." and build a commonality with her and/or ask another follow up question to dig even deeper and get more investment. She will feel good about talking about herself and it won't feel like an interview but more of a natural conversation.
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    Default Re: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    You can call me crazy but If some girl says ''I feel like I am under an interview!'' my reply will be "I like taking interviews, I'm the boss" in a joking voice with a big smile on my face. Don't attach yourself too much to what she says.
    Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys does.

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    Default Re: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    maybe say, "Are you crazy? This is not an interview at all...now where do you see yourself in 5 years from now?"
    "Cause people are funny and they donít know what they want when they have it
    Itís only things they donít know that they can believe in"




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    Default Re: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    The reason why she feels that way is mainly because you asked her too many questions in short period of time....Conversation is based on stories,not Q&A. I always do this - after question like "If you could wake up tomorrow in any place in the world,where would that be?" she answers Africa or some shit I go "Realy? You know what,I have a friend in Africa,who is ..............STORY TIME" Reason to do this is to create comfort,to make her feel relaxed,after every question follow up with a story. Her mind will be far away from "interview mode",and after revealing your "personal stories" she will be forced becouse of "social preasure" to tell some kind of stories. If you do this 3 times imagine how far your conversation would go +10 min,+20 min or even more of solid conversation where you get to know her..Hope that helps

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    Default Re: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    Thanks Challenger

    Hollywood, you made me laugh, If I get into that situation, I have a good comeback than go in building rapport

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    Default Re: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    Bro dont ask so may question be relaxed and dot be disperate to go on date with her take it easy .Girls dont like boys who disperate want to go on date with her .Try to speak with her as you would speak with your best friend be detached

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    Default Re: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    WillEdward and The Challenger are correct. I have one additional tip for ya. And that's the turn-the-question-into-statement trick. I love this technique.

    All you do is find ways to turn your question into a statement and it'll help disguise your questions.

    Ex: Question- Where are you from?
    Instead - You seem like your from the south (or) I bet your from the south
    Question - What kind of movies you like?
    Instead - Oh you're totally the type that loves those romantic comedies I can tell.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Girl says '' I feel interviewed''... what to reply?

    Thanks

    I usually ask 1 question than go in the statement base..... maybe I should go with the statement first


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