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    KarlBenny is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is she a slut or am I being immature?

    So, basically I work at a technology park were there are a bunch of different startups and people working.

    Through some work colleagues, I met a girl that works also at the tech park, but in a different company. We started having lunch or coffee all together as a group and after 1/2 weeks I isolated her and we started having lunch only the two of us were some small kino escalation happened (grabbing arms, touching face, jokes and so on). During this lunches/coffees we had together I said things to her like

    "you look so good today, I'm trying so hard to control myself"
    "you're so cool I really like talking to you"

    After she said I was smelling very well I answered: "I put this perfume this morning thinking about you"
    After I paid my part of the bill with card "ex: John Simpson" the waiter thought he were a couple and called her "Mrs. Simpson". She smiled and said nothing. I then said "Wow! now I was getting scared because I thought I was missing something or haven't paid attention! But now I looked again to your hands and hopefully there's no ring there ahaha". She smiled again but didnt comment nothing regarding that.

    I invited her then to meet during the weekend (outside work environment) and she instantly said yes. We met at a coffee, then took a walk at the beach and then we sit at the beach. At that point I put my arm around her and tried to smell her neck to then go for the kiss, but she "denied". She moved her head a little bit away and started playing with the sand or something. She was clearly unconfortable and then she said it was getting cold and our date ended. Failure.
    After that I knew I was friendzoned and ended our lunches together only the 2 of us (I still liked her but this was the right thing to do). We joined her friends (my colleagues) from work again to have lunch all together and through the following weeks I only did small talk conversation with her and started seeing her as a friend only.

    Now, something happened and I am REALLY MAD!!

    Now, that she sees me as a friend and not as a guy who wants to fuck her, she said to me during a conversation that this weekend she is going to her boyfriends family party because its his cousin's birthday and his family is great and whatever. She already knows his entire family, its not something recent for sure!

    WTF are you kidding me!!!!?

    She had a boyfriend and said nothing to me during all this time!?? She had plenty of opportunities! I was clearly hitting on her, no way she didnt noticed that!!
    Now I feel the stupidest guy in the planet and feel like she was playing with my feelings because I was starting to like her.
    I mean, everytime I try to hit on girls and start using kino or making jokes, if they are not interested they would kindly say that they have a boyfriend, they are too busy to come meet with me or whatever. Thatīs normal and I am not hurt by that at all. But in this situation she said nothing and she gave me hope everytime. I am angry and mad now.

    So, conclusion:

    Should I continue to have lunch together with her and her group of friends like nothing happened and everything is cool, or should I start moving away and stop talking to her at all and to her friends?

    Am I being immature and should handle this like nothing happened its a common situation, or is she a slut that doesnt deserve 1 minute of my attention?

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    mrhuggies is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Is she a slut or am I being immature?

    If you're getting along with all the friends you've made, don't go.
    Maybe she knew you were hitting on her, but felt to awkward to just out right say that she had a boyfriend. She might have even liked the attention she was getting from you. She might be a really nice girl and somebody to have as a friend and not a F.B
    Who knows?

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    Slickwilly is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she a slut or am I being immature?

    How did she become a slut, because she didn't kiss you after a boring coffee date and a walk on the beach? Ha ha!

    Youve been having lunch with her for weeks and according to you have "kino escalated" yet for your first date, you go get coffee and talk. How is that different from every lunch/coffee break you've spent with her at work? BORING!

    thinking back on your question as I write this, you friend zoned yourself way before the date, that's why she didn't mention the boyfriend.

    Move on and Let her chase you. Be less available and unpredictable, eat lunch at a later time, be busy when you take your coffee break.


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