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    Default How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    The term alpha male is something that gets thrown around a lot in the PUA community. So I ask this question because I would like to know exactly how important is it to try to live up to the sometimes almost unrealistic standard of being an AM. I actually read somewhere online recently that it's more important to be a high value male than an alpha male because alpha males rarely have long term satisfying relationships( according to them). Sure, they can get women for the short term but in the long term most women do not want to be dominated and they cite the dominant thing which is characteristic of alpha males as the reason why they don't succeed long term. They say high value males are better for long term relationships. I don't necessarily disagree with this.

    Also, consider this. When you approach a woman in a bar or club do you really think she is saying to herself something like "ok this guy is an alpha male I'll talk to him,""this guy is beta so I will ignore him" etc etc. If a guy comes across as overly dominant I'm sure that would be a turn off for most women(even super attractive ones). Sure you want to be assertive and stand your ground and not act like you are afraid of her but I think sometimes guys go a little bit to crazy with the alpha male thing and it backfires on them. I think many women can see past it.

    Also, how alpha is it if you are going out of your way to try to be something just because you think that's how others will accept you. Self improvement is one thing but if you say "oh, I've got to be alpha. I've got to put on this act of trying to dominant the woman and be this tough guy that everyone is going to respect" do you really think that will work for you in the long run? I think be the best you is better advice rather than trying to transform yourself into some kind of super man that becomes transparent to everyone but himself. All my opinion of course.

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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    It is important only that my happiness isn't rudely interrupted. I also want to achieve that by not ruining anyone else's happiness is. I don't have to amog anyone unless they try to mess with me. But I wouldn't go out of my to humiliate, I would just stand up for myself and be on my way.



    Beta and alpha males have certain behaviors. A woman is judging you by how you act. I have recently just started talking to a very beautiful woman and she said she used to talk to a tool and that he was douchebag but every other guy that would talk to her turned out to be "weird" so what can you really do.


    Being high value means just having your shit together. You bring something to the table. Be it money, life experiences, material assets, your brain, your body, etc.

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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    To me it is very important. High Value Males have their sh!t together and usually are the successful/got money type but they are usually douchebags and rely on their status to get chicks. They usually are more needy/beta so sure they are better for relationships for this reason. I am definitely not a high value male but I pretend to be.

    I am an Alpha Male for sure. It is not about being the biggest jock in the room either. It is just about taking charge and not giving a fvck. So when I hit high profile bars and A list clubs I show no mercy and approach the hottest chicks I can find. This is Alpha not looking to make approval.

    High Value Males are the type to show and buy the table, or have a group of guy and girl friends and then pull the hot girl. That's a pain in the ass. As an Alpha Male I don't have time for that. I go from bar to bar hitting up as many chicks as I can, trying to pull, etc. It is a pretty lone wolf lifestyle at least for me.

    On the flip side I am being approached regularly and being hit on constantly for being noticed as an Alpha Male. Girls don't say this it is just an instinct now. Because I do it so often I just hunt hunt hunt. Girls can see me in hunt mode and come hit me up first usually hence I get hit on by bartenders, strippers, etc all the time because my attitude is different.

    It is an attitude not just in the Club or Bar but in the real world. I am just taking charge more dominating more. Specifying what I want more. Being more open. I barely found my Alpha Male side last year. This year I am unleashing Beast Mode, Hunt Mode. Just becoming more of calculated. Being beta you may approach lesser hot girls or safer sets. I go for the hottest chicks and sometimes the hardest sets. I also say the hardest things to say like hey let's hookup tonight, are you looking for a relationship etc. I am more direct now.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    be fucking calm bro, masturbate yourself before u go to field. U should hide your hunger, act like u ve dosens of pussies.

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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    To me it is very important. High Value Males have their sh!t together and usually are the successful/got money type but they are usually douchebags and rely on their status to get chicks. They usually are more needy/beta so sure they are better for relationships for this reason. I am definitely not a high value male but I pretend to be.

    I am an Alpha Male for sure. It is not about being the biggest jock in the room either. It is just about taking charge and not giving a fvck. So when I hit high profile bars and A list clubs I show no mercy and approach the hottest chicks I can find. This is Alpha not looking to make approval.

    High Value Males are the type to show and buy the table, or have a group of guy and girl friends and then pull the hot girl. That's a pain in the ass. As an Alpha Male I don't have time for that. I go from bar to bar hitting up as many chicks as I can, trying to pull, etc. It is a pretty lone wolf lifestyle at least for me.

    On the flip side I am being approached regularly and being hit on constantly for being noticed as an Alpha Male. Girls don't say this it is just an instinct now. Because I do it so often I just hunt hunt hunt. Girls can see me in hunt mode and come hit me up first usually hence I get hit on by bartenders, strippers, etc all the time because my attitude is different.

    It is an attitude not just in the Club or Bar but in the real world. I am just taking charge more dominating more. Specifying what I want more. Being more open. I barely found my Alpha Male side last year. This year I am unleashing Beast Mode, Hunt Mode. Just becoming more of calculated. Being beta you may approach lesser hot girls or safer sets. I go for the hottest chicks and sometimes the hardest sets. I also say the hardest things to say like hey let's hookup tonight, are you looking for a relationship etc. I am more direct now.
    If women are approaching you(without even knowing you)then it's because you look a certain way. You are probably really muscular, super good looking, tall, maybe have tattoos(if that picture is you then that would be the case)and stand very straight and have good body language and most importantly dress extremely well. No women will approach a guy "just because." If he doesn't look good it doesn't matter how good his body language or posture is(although these things certainly help) he won't get approached by a woman(let a lone a hot one).

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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    If women are approaching you(without even knowing you)then it's because you look a certain way. You are probably really muscular, super good looking, tall, maybe have tattoos(if that picture is you then that would be the case)and stand very straight and have good body language and most importantly dress extremely well. No women will approach a guy "just because." If he doesn't look good it doesn't matter how good his body language or posture is(although these things certainly help) he won't get approached by a woman(let a lone a hot one).
    It's called peacocking bro, I re-defined it from the original pick up artists. So yeah muscles, tatts, fitness, dress fashion forward of course, swagger (bracelets, necklaces), good looking helps I fit the bill there.

    But honestly truely it is an arduous task. I got this killer outfit for St Pats and overshot last year's get up. So it is a little hard living up to this high profile image that's the only challenge I guess. I got the look but I have to own. If I go out looking like a badass and act timid people still think I am a flipping weirdo no difference. But if I find my rhythm and get in a groove then chicks are all over it. Shouting lustful things, whistling, public displays of affection, saying their horny to me, and when this pu$$y falls in my lap I back away a little, walk away or sometimes ignore but I am gonna be Captain America this year on my getting approached. I do perfect approaching but getting approached/hit on is definitely an 8 ball I've been grappling with

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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    WTF man. OF COURSE IT IS! ALL GAME BASED ON TO BE ALPHA MALE.

    There are 2 options,

    If you are not ALPHA, you are fuckin BETA!

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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    And being an Alpha doesn't mean you're a jerk or mean. Presidents have been Alpha, Professors, Clergymen, etc. Some
    confuse it with being a douchebag - so study this site and understand it's true meaning to help you with women and empowering yourself in life.
    FYI: for me, becoming a black belt helped me in many ways toward that...
    "Cause people are funny and they donít know what they want when they have it
    Itís only things they donít know that they can believe in"




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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    Becoming Alpha means, you r trying to reach your upper limits in every area. Thefore u need to improve yourself as much as u can do.

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    Default Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?

    Alpha is an odd term in that it means different things to different people. One of the newer terms is an Omega male meaning more relationship and character focused than just pure PUA. I like the character and real conversation learning. Easy to learn a bunch of games to play on the reptile brain of initial dating. For me it is more about finding how to build sustained relationships.


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