Re: How important is it to you to be an alpha male?
To me it is very important. High Value Males have their sh!t together and usually are the successful/got money type but they are usually douchebags and rely on their status to get chicks. They usually are more needy/beta so sure they are better for relationships for this reason. I am definitely not a high value male but I pretend to be.
I am an Alpha Male for sure. It is not about being the biggest jock in the room either. It is just about taking charge and not giving a fvck. So when I hit high profile bars and A list clubs I show no mercy and approach the hottest chicks I can find. This is Alpha not looking to make approval.
High Value Males are the type to show and buy the table, or have a group of guy and girl friends and then pull the hot girl. That's a pain in the ass. As an Alpha Male I don't have time for that. I go from bar to bar hitting up as many chicks as I can, trying to pull, etc. It is a pretty lone wolf lifestyle at least for me.
On the flip side I am being approached regularly and being hit on constantly for being noticed as an Alpha Male. Girls don't say this it is just an instinct now. Because I do it so often I just hunt hunt hunt. Girls can see me in hunt mode and come hit me up first usually hence I get hit on by bartenders, strippers, etc all the time because my attitude is different.
It is an attitude not just in the Club or Bar but in the real world. I am just taking charge more dominating more. Specifying what I want more. Being more open. I barely found my Alpha Male side last year. This year I am unleashing Beast Mode, Hunt Mode. Just becoming more of calculated. Being beta you may approach lesser hot girls or safer sets. I go for the hottest chicks and sometimes the hardest sets. I also say the hardest things to say like hey let's hookup tonight, are you looking for a relationship etc. I am more direct now.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.