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    Default Tough, advanced question

    So I'm in a relationship with an HB8, which happened due to this
    site - reading, going out consistently, etc.
    Having sex regularly, here's the issue. What do you do after you've
    had sex 10 times or so and it's becoming routine? Am I just one of those
    guys who wants new women? She says she loves me and she is a great girl. She
    does pretty much whatever I want, but it still feels routine now. How do you
    handle this?
    "Cause people are funny and they donít know what they want when they have it
    Itís only things they donít know that they can believe in"




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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    Welcome to relationships lol. Routine doesn't have to be a bad thing. It's a great time to find a hobby, or a career for that matter. Dating and PUA can take a lot of time so now use that free time to get into something else.

    Personally I don't really do anything different with the sex. Like role play or bondage or whatever. I'm old school. I just have it less frequently. Instead of 1 or 2 a day. It'll be a few times a week. Then down to 1 a week. That's just the way I am and I like it. It always makes them want it more and I have more energy to make them remember it.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    Quote Originally Posted by HollywoodCA View Post
    So I'm in a relationship with an HB8, which happened due to this
    site - reading, going out consistently, etc.
    Having sex regularly, here's the issue. What do you do after you've
    had sex 10 times or so and it's becoming routine? Am I just one of those
    guys who wants new women? She says she loves me and she is a great girl. She
    does pretty much whatever I want, but it still feels routine now. How do you
    handle this?
    Yikes... it feels like a routine already? Invest more and connect with her emotionally... sounds like things are slightly on a superficial level or she isn't relaxed enough or keyed in. Just my 2 cents...
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle

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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Welcome to relationships lol. Routine doesn't have to be a bad thing. It's a great time to find a hobby, or a career for that matter. Dating and PUA can take a lot of time so now use that free time to get into something else.

    Personally I don't really do anything different with the sex. Like role play or bondage or whatever. I'm old school. I just have it less frequently. Instead of 1 or 2 a day. It'll be a few times a week. Then down to 1 a week. That's just the way I am and I like it. It always makes them want it more and I have more energy to make them remember it.
    What is the purpose of this relationship if not to have children?

    And thus why it's not all a game, right?

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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    Go get some sex toys and costumes.

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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    You again huh lol. I hope you're not following me even though I'm charming.

    The purpose of any relationship is subjective which you should already know. My personal purpose is not to have children, but to find that compatibility.

    And I'll reiterate again here for you as a favor, but please do me the courtesy of not misinterpreting what's literally black and white in front of you.

    It is all a game. Yes it is. However, that is not me implying that this should not be taken seriously. In fact it should. What I am saying when I say it's all a game is that there are rules and points allotted similar to a game. If she touches your arm and laughs...points go to you. If you buy her a drink when you don't even know her name....points to her. How do you win the game? Well that is also something that is subjective.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    All you can really do to spice things up is role play, talk dirty, dress up, threesomes, etc. new positions, new places to have sex, the time of day to have sex...etc. eventually you might end up doin all of the above but it is what it is. I like relationships where I enjoy the other persons company. It's like having a best friend who you can bang and be romantic with at the same time.

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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    And what's your line to her when you decrease the frequency for everyday to once a week?
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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    It's MY issue. I get bored easily. Batman's advice is good. Lower the frequency.
    "Cause people are funny and they donít know what they want when they have it
    Itís only things they donít know that they can believe in"




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    Default Re: Tough, advanced question

    Tried that. Not really my thing.
    "Cause people are funny and they donít know what they want when they have it
    Itís only things they donít know that they can believe in"





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