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    Erunanethiel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    This one girl that our mutual friend made us meet is pissed at me. On the second date, in my car i have been teaching her how to drive a stick by holding her hand and showing which gear is which. After that when i was speeding she was always holding or hugging my arm, I was making her shift the gear to make her work for and she was having fun. But then i made the mistake of keeping on negging her even though i was at the comfort stage. And she became sad and offended. Even though i made jokes and that would bring some sunshine. I didnt want to say sorry since it would lover my value. And then we met with our mutual friend and my friend and they made say sorry to her while they were all there, but i kept on not talking to her. And then while i was dropping her off we talked in the car and we texted there after me saying, you will have to work on me a bit and she said yes i definitely do. It wasnt that bad of a convo, but when today i saw her we didnt really talk much, she offered me cookie and i wasnt really hungry, that was about it. She said to our mutual friend she still is a bit angry. Should i text her or wait for her to text? Normally at this time of the day, we would me texting.

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    Erunanethiel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    I will meet her today after school, but she wasnt really talkative today with me in school

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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    u are overthinking bro. Just act like was nothing happanef. Be the guy she liked before. Negging is good but there is a line between negging and insulting. You are the prize with a lot of options.

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    Erunanethiel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    She told her friends i was rude and i probably do it just for sex. Should i invest in her to make her comfortable, or should bait on try make her invest?

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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    i would make investment to her till i deceide it is eneough, then i d bait. U can actually use Mystery ignore tactic, so she should show some effort to come to you.

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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    I think u shouldnt make it a big deal...next time u talk or hang out jus forget about it n move foward. U shouldnt jus b constantly negging her unless thats ur personality. Im a natural ball buster...girls always cry about how im mean n wut not but i dnt completly cut it out. Jus scale it back a tad n keep moving foward.
    what type of negging were u doing n example of how frequent u were doing it

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    Erunanethiel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    We were walking arm in arm today. Then when i was dropping her off, she wanted me to go a bit past her house so her dad wouldnt see. And i did. When I got home i asked her via text if he has seen me. She said that he told him we are friends. And I said just friends? She said yeah I dont know yet. I said i couldnt stay if we were only going to be friends. And that would make me sad. She said it was too early to talk about those now. And changed the subject. I think i have come off as needy. What should I do to gain value back?

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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    Saying you're sorry sometimes doesn't decrease your value. It increases, because it shows you're a man who is aware of the mistakes he makes and isn't afraid of acknowledging them.
    Having said that, act differently the next time you two meet. Less negging, more C&F and teasing.

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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    Comfort stage??? wtf is that? Sounds like a Synonym for Friend Zone.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: negged her during comfort phase HELP ASAP

    There are
    3,418,059,380 women in the world. find a new one
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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