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    Default Flirtationship?

    hi there


    I have "friend" for the lack of a better friend who i have become close with. Lets call her Ash.


    Ash and I speak non stop over text (which is kind of a bad thing i know) and we often see each other a lot. I would go to her house to chill and we would usually make plans to go out clubbing together and what not. Now, i know what you're thinking: "This guy is so in the friend zone" - if there is such a thing.


    This is different, i know it is because she lets me grab her ass and tits (which are nice by the way) and we have sort of a flirtationship going on. She is basically a female version of a PUA because she pulls on a weekly basis.


    Her and i have a very weird relationship and i often find ourselves flirting to an extent. Theres been times where she's made statements such as "I wore tights just for you" (I'm an ass guy ) but thats Ash being Ash. others like "Did you see the cleavage i showed for you","did you see my boobs have grown", "you're bae" and other stuff.


    We have said that if we both have an off night we would hook up with each other and popular to contrary belief, we still haven't.


    Many people believe her and i are a fling but we are, its weird our relationship.


    I guess my question is, what should i do to make her chase me, how could i seduce her into wanting me and craving my attention? A good friend of mine said that maybe i should back off and show that i don't care because I'm giving off the impression that I'm her little puppy and ill always be there.


    Thanks in advance and let me know if you want any other information.


    Mystro

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    Default Re: Flirtationship?

    How old are you pup? U r actin like child. How could not you escalate situation from grabbing her tits and ass?Go gor kclose. So simple.. Make yourself less available. You r looking needy, you are the man with a lot of options. Let her chase by doing "dont care" her..

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    Default Re: Flirtationship?

    You're going through what I am going through. It's what I call New Age Revolution of Dating. Women are a kin to our schemes and wildish ways.

    I am stuck in the Friend Zone as well (I guess we could call it that)

    Either way I met a hot chick on Tinder (and she said I DON't DO HOOKUPS) on the profile and to my phone so I felt like I was at gridlock from the get go. So I choose to curtail past it and not talk about it (to prevent a blow out) well I talked about relationships or a relationship with her nonstop and now today she is like

    I don't want to talk about relationships anymore
    But how are you?

    (Bi-polar much?)


    I think since
    no Sex talk and no relationship I am stuck in the friend zone

    My only hope is her asking me out for a wild frenzy I am afraid at this point nothing else I can do because women are stepping it up.
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    Default Re: Flirtationship?

    try kiss to her, if you fail, cut all contact. If she comes and calls it means she is in. It is the fastest way but u would lose her so be prepared. Some times if you wanna win someone, u should ready to lose.

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    Default Re: Flirtationship?

    Yo Mystro,

    It sounds like she's the type of girl who loves to flirt. She loves the attention you're giving her, and you're not coming off as a creep, so she keeps you around to flirt with. Not only that, but she's comfortable with herself to the point that she says shit like "I wore tights just for you" etc etc. This shows that she KNOWS she's high value. But you guys haven't fucked yet.

    I would suggest that you start to TEASE HER. Tell her she couldn't handle you sexually. She's not adventurous enough for you. Turn your back on her for no reason, right in the middle of conversation, just to mess with her a little bit and to amuse yourself. Tell her you guys would never be able to hook up because you both like getting into trouble too much, and if you did end up hooking up, something might get broken

    Statements and actions like this convey SEXUAL ABUNDANCE, they tell her that you're not needy, you don't need to chase her, she can chase you if she wants you, and if not, that's cool, you got plenty of other girls on your line, waiting for a piece.

    ^^^By far the most attractive frame to come from.

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    Default Re: Flirtationship?

    What you guys are failing to realize is many women nowadays have been burnt far too many times with the while I'm player sorta vibe at theme.

    My Tinder chick tells me this. She tells me I am not going to just "hookup with her" and that's not how she rolls. So throwing out a kinky sorta vibe is going to backfire they been there done that and got burnt by the guy that did.

    My Tinder chick said she wants to get to know means be my friend first because she needs to make sure of anything before just jumping into bed with someone. So why would teasing her sexually accomplish anything?? You guys need to pay attention to women and the kind of women because throwing out a player vibe is tending to be a tell tale sign these days of a hit it and quit it kinda guy. They know and that's why they don't text you back.

    As for the OP just do what I am doing be her damn friend for womanly advice and find someone else to screw around with. In other words build a harem, get more girls, etc.

    Because I am friendzoned now I can build a greater rotation (4 girls) seeing as I have 1 friend and 1 I am sexting with. I can add 2 more since 1 is just a friend. My limit is 3 to be sufficient but seeing as I am in the friendzone I don't consider that a hookup option on a Friday or Saturday night. Time to hit the Bars OP for someone new but keep her around to talk about your women problems just to lower her value. Hey if they want to be our friend and emasculate us might as well make it back handed obvious we are getting it elsewhere and only coming to them for advice. Just to stick the nail in the non-sexual friendship coffin. I imagine they would be outrageously jealous!! Can't wait to pull this stunt on the new Tinder chick. Play me and I'll play you. Don't chase replace. That's my attitude.
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    Default Re: Flirtationship?

    LOL whats the female word for a PUA??? any guesses.

    Just invite her to yours, take her to your room and push her on the bed and start kissing her. She obviosly Sleeps around (Female PUA lol) and she lets you grab her ass and tits.

    If that is a mixed signal.. Then I will shoot myself in the head right now.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Flirtationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    LOL whats the female word for a PUA??? any guesses.
    uhhh SLUT lol .


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