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Thread: Stuck in the Friendzone

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    Default Stuck in the Friendzone

    I just got friendzoned, the Tinder chick.

    Either my first time or my first time noticing it. Picking up more social ques now these days.

    It's been 3 weeks since I matched this girl on Tinder and currently maybe biding my time till Summer and I can next her. I am hard up for numbers and a rotation so I keeping her around cuz hell I need a friend but damn it sux.



    I don't know I really don't think I screwed up at all. I am confident so I have no problems being vocal about how I feel or asking a chick out.


    Asked her out to
    Lunch
    Bar
    St Paddys
    My House


    and nothing. She chose to respond to nothing except the St Paddys which was a
    "I would love to but....I'm outta town"


    Which was B.S. because Tinder said she was local all weekend for St Paddys so that was BS.


    Then her profile said "NO HOOKUPS!!!!" so I was a little detoured by the whole flaming queen sorta vibe.


    I wrote her and asked her out after my Tinder match and she said "I don't do hookups" but all I said was I wanted to go to lunch with her and she used that line on me.




    I feel like I am talking to a scarecrow. She always responds (at least mostly for the last 3 weeks) so I am not working too too hard to talk to her.


    But
    A. Won't respond to me going out with her (again not my problem I asked 50 times feels like so I stopped)
    B. She used the hookup thing on me twice so out of fear of rejection I chose the higher road and not talk sexual.
    C. Talked about relationship stuff instead (to which got her attracted to me to begin with and recover from some long days of her ignoring me)
    D. Now she said to stop talking about relationships (to which she entertained at first)


    So
    No relationship stuff
    No hookup talk


    So I feel like I am stuck in the friendzone!!


    She said she wants to talk but what is the point if you can't talk about your emotions, feelings or mutual attraction, hookups, or dating?


    Feel like I am in the friendzone
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack

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    Default Re: Stuck in the Friendzone

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    I just got friendzoned, the Tinder chick.

    Either my first time or my first time noticing it. Picking up more social ques now these days.

    It's been 3 weeks since I matched this girl on Tinder and currently maybe biding my time till Summer and I can next her. I am hard up for numbers and a rotation so I keeping her around cuz hell I need a friend but damn it sux.



    I don't know I really don't think I screwed up at all. I am confident so I have no problems being vocal about how I feel or asking a chick out.


    Asked her out to
    Lunch
    Bar
    St Paddys
    My House


    and nothing. She chose to respond to nothing except the St Paddys which was a
    "I would love to but....I'm outta town"


    Which was B.S. because Tinder said she was local all weekend for St Paddys so that was BS.


    Then her profile said "NO HOOKUPS!!!!" so I was a little detoured by the whole flaming queen sorta vibe.


    I wrote her and asked her out after my Tinder match and she said "I don't do hookups" but all I said was I wanted to go to lunch with her and she used that line on me.




    I feel like I am talking to a scarecrow. She always responds (at least mostly for the last 3 weeks) so I am not working too too hard to talk to her.


    But
    A. Won't respond to me going out with her (again not my problem I asked 50 times feels like so I stopped)
    B. She used the hookup thing on me twice so out of fear of rejection I chose the higher road and not talk sexual.
    C. Talked about relationship stuff instead (to which got her attracted to me to begin with and recover from some long days of her ignoring me)
    D. Now she said to stop talking about relationships (to which she entertained at first)


    So
    No relationship stuff
    No hookup talk


    So I feel like I am stuck in the friendzone!!


    She said she wants to talk but what is the point if you can't talk about your emotions, feelings or mutual attraction, hookups, or dating?


    Feel like I am in the friendzone
    U cannot win all battles. I d suggest you go NC till she calls, otherwise it seems like u r pushing to further.

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    Default Re: Stuck in the Friendzone

    I would agree with that however I have recently developed my own methods (Big 3s) so this would break those laws. Now maybe if I was in Last Resort mode but I am not quite there yet


    Big 3s I mean
    3 Second Rule
    3 Day Rule
    3 Strike Rule
    3 Hour Rule
    3 Message Rule
    3 Month Rule

    etc

    I will write them out some of them old and some new.

    Anyway it would break my 3 day rule if I go NC

    Granted for the last 3 weeks I go 1-3 days NC and hit her up again (1 month NC would kill me right now) so far it has been very effective. So at most I can only wait 3 days NC based on this rule. But yeah maybe I will wait 3 days.
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    Default Re: Stuck in the Friendzone

    Sorry dude but i show some afc behaviours. Do bot forget tou are the prize but u do not let her effort you to get you. U r pushing and pushing again. U r increasing her value. If she likes u, trust me she ll call you. Otherway u ll stuck to friend zone.

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    Default Re: Stuck in the Friendzone

    You asked her out on 4 occasions so your 3 strike rule didnt apply.

    but for the answer you are actually looking for. Yes you are stuck in the friend zone

    You have already put in more then you got out, its a bad investment. Take whats left and invest it somewhere else were your chase of success is higher. 3.5 billion women in the world, your not missing out on anything by cutting her off. Just opening more opportunities, time and energy to apply to something better.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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