I just got friendzoned, the Tinder chick.
Either my first time or my first time noticing it. Picking up more social ques now these days.
It's been 3 weeks since I matched this girl on Tinder and currently maybe biding my time till Summer and I can next her. I am hard up for numbers and a rotation so I keeping her around cuz hell I need a friend but damn it sux.
I don't know I really don't think I screwed up at all. I am confident so I have no problems being vocal about how I feel or asking a chick out.
Asked her out to
and nothing. She chose to respond to nothing except the St Paddys which was a
"I would love to but....I'm outta town"
Which was B.S. because Tinder said she was local all weekend for St Paddys so that was BS.
Then her profile said "NO HOOKUPS!!!!" so I was a little detoured by the whole flaming queen sorta vibe.
I wrote her and asked her out after my Tinder match and she said "I don't do hookups" but all I said was I wanted to go to lunch with her and she used that line on me.
I feel like I am talking to a scarecrow. She always responds (at least mostly for the last 3 weeks) so I am not working too too hard to talk to her.
A. Won't respond to me going out with her (again not my problem I asked 50 times feels like so I stopped)
B. She used the hookup thing on me twice so out of fear of rejection I chose the higher road and not talk sexual.
C. Talked about relationship stuff instead (to which got her attracted to me to begin with and recover from some long days of her ignoring me)
D. Now she said to stop talking about relationships (to which she entertained at first)
No relationship stuff
No hookup talk
So I feel like I am stuck in the friendzone!!
She said she wants to talk but what is the point if you can't talk about your emotions, feelings or mutual attraction, hookups, or dating?
Feel like I am in the friendzone