So..figured id pick some of ur guys brains. This is the situation...
I been seeing this girl(single mom) for a few months. She lives about 2 hours away. She comes to my town every weekend to see her family n go to church n we drink n bang. Same routine almost every weekend. She seemed super attracked to me in the begining. She is the one who got my number..even went and asked her older sister, to ask my mother for it haha
anyway...she always accuses me of just wanting sex, which is mostly true, but she cool to hang with.
Heres where it gets a lil sticky...i boned her best friends sister in high school..girl was in love with me for a while. Treated her like trash cuz thats what she was. I boned her old best friend from high school. And i also boned her 'sister' which is actually her neice. I juggled them for a little while years ago n ended up goin with the younger neice.
Anyway everything seemed good for a while...then when her friends n neice find out they start bad mouthing me saying i was all in love with her n i wrote her a letter n shit on fb. Which i wrote some gay shit cuz she went back with a dude she said raped her haha
also her her friends n neice is saying that i fuck with so many girls y is she messing with me bla bla
so i play it pretty well..she buys me gifts..i only ever bought her a butt plug n payed for snacks at the movies one night. She bought my ticket
soooo thats the back ground....
here is the question i have...
the last week or so shes been hanging out with her friends till late n calls me to bang n im cool wit it...she cruzes with me n while im fuckn her she says she gotta go cuz i take to long to cum...happens all thr time. I get a lil upset...brush it off the next day. Same thing all the time. I went to her side of town n told come see to so we can have sex in the jacuzzi at a hotel she says she cant. Her friend n her sister is at her house, one of the girls i fooled around with years ago. She says shes coming to town on fri so come see her
things seem fine...fri comes, i hear nothing, txt late like 12ish n ask if shes wearing panties tonight...she txt back hour later, "yea n sweatpants" i ignore n leave it at that
no talk the next day...then we go to church together...she txt me, "bring my iron" (i borrowed from her the other week. I reply 'nah im still gonna use it' she reply " i need it" n i never txtd back
i wasnt goin to church so i never seen her or heard from her after that..
that was about 5 days ago
shes on a trip right now for a week or so
so i figured i leave it at that..maybe i'll hear from her maybe i wont. But im gonna see her in church next week or the week after at least. So my question is...should i continue the freeze or not?
-i dnt want her to think im mad or anything
-she usually is always txtn me but seemed a lil distant
-i do think i have been too available to her just prior to this all happening
but at the same time...i pretty much just talk about n hit her up for sex which seems to b a question/concern thats always on her mind.
-this is the reason i would think the freeze would b the wrong move