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    Default Getting back or not

    I recently broke up with this girl because I wanted a more casual relationship and were not willing to "sacrifice" my comfort and compromise with her and the relationship in some situations. I was tired of her getting upset over things like, if I did not walk her home or if I acted a little cold or when we couldn't hang out for long because I went home to sleep since I had school the next day. The thing is, I started feeling like I want her back lately. When we broke up all was good between us since we were friends before we dated and we still are friends so I see her quite often. I know that she still likes me (she told me in some unrelated conversation we had). But I am worried that I will just replay the whole relationship and it will end the same way. I might be falling into some love avoidance cycle here. What are your thoughts? What is your advice if I do decide that I wanna get back with her; meaning how should I go about having alone time with her since we don't get much after the break-up, we just hang out with the social circle.

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    Artist is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Getting back or not

    Ok, now I have decided that I do want her back but I need some advice on how to go about it. Do I just behave as I would with any girl? Or do I be straightforward and just talk to her?

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    Default Re: Getting back or not

    That isn't love, She is emotionally dependent and attached.

    Be careful Artist.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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