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    Leon1991 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Telling a girl about my virginity...

    Hey Guys!

    I have the following problem: I am a 24 year old virgin and never had a girlfriend. I am not weird or ugly, just picky. Now Ive been going out with a girl once and she kissed me, everything has been going great so far. We lay on my bed and made out, so Im pretty sure we will have sex on our next date. Now how do I, if at all, tell her that I am a virgin? I know that she has been with several men, so it might become pretty embarassing... do I tell her before or after sex? And what would be a good way to handle it?
    Any advice will be appreciated!

    Leon1991

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    Default Re: Telling a girl about my virginity...

    Why do you think you have to tell her? I'm gonna go and assume it's because you want to lower her expectations? If that's the case, trust me, you don't need to do that. Just enjoy the sex. That's all you have to do. Don't worry about not lasting long enough/not knowing what to do. Don't use your virginity as a crutch.

    If on the other case, you just want to tell her just because. Then just tell her. You don't need to be embarassed about it. If anything, the pressure is now on her to make it memorable for you.
    Example: (immediately before)
    "Hey it's my first time. So, no biting" (smile)
    then proceed to what you were doing. It's only a big deal if you make it a BIG DEAL.

    Whatever the case is DON'T OVERTHINK IT. I wish you the best of luck.

    -N

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    Default Re: Telling a girl about my virginity...

    Quote Originally Posted by Leon1991 View Post
    Hey Guys!

    I have the following problem: I am a 24 year old virgin and never had a girlfriend. I am not weird or ugly, just picky. Now Ive been going out with a girl once and she kissed me, everything has been going great so far. We lay on my bed and made out, so Im pretty sure we will have sex on our next date. Now how do I, if at all, tell her that I am a virgin? I know that she has been with several men, so it might become pretty embarassing... do I tell her before or after sex? And what would be a good way to handle it?
    Any advice will be appreciated!

    Leon1991

    I think you need to find a fatty or a slut, and have sex asap.

    Or try a prostitute, but don't use any of their advice, they don't really enjoy sex with strangers.

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    Mr. Assertive is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Telling a girl about my virginity...

    Don't tell her you're a virgin.

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    Default Re: Telling a girl about my virginity...

    You said "Now how do I, if at all, tell her that I am a virgin? I know that she has been with several men, so it might become pretty embarassing"

    Why is it embarrassing that you are less of a slut then she is" Live the pride you deserve brother. If you arn't ugly or socially retarded, Just picky then thats because you value yourself higher then the average Girl. No shame in that. If anything its more attractive, She has to achieve a certain standard to Have you sexually. DHV DHV
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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