Re: Ugly Chick Likes Me
Firstly, acting aloof is the biggest mistake you made, If you like a chick, and she not interested, does she act aloof.... No! she friend zones you. Same rule applies. When she told you she liked you "you say in respectful manner "i think your a beautiful person, we get along really well, but I dont see you that way"i know you probably didnt want to hurt, but leading her will delay the process and when she figures it out it will hurt more and she will resent you, but if your straight with her, she will be hurt or rejected, but it pass fairly quickly and then she will respect you when the next guy leads her on.
Letting her say statements annd not rejecting them, is the same as saying you like her too and not meaning it. You need to shut down everytime, No i cant hang out with you outside of work, its un professional, No I wont come to your birthday I feel like its getting to serious and I dont see you that way but happy birthday and have a good night.
If you are not physically attracted to her It either wont work, or maybe she reminds you of your mum if you date her.... Who knows, But men See with there eyes, Women have a whole checklist. Aslong as most mornings you wake up with a morning glory, then you a sexually driven which is dictated to the physical, Hense on "how I met your mother"The hot Crazy Scale, Basic Principle is The hotter she is, the more willing your are to deal with her psycho/Shittiness.
Since we are dictated dramatically by the physical, basically our eyes are connected to our penis then the signal goes to the brain (not an actual fact) We are designed to procreate, women stimulate that, they provide that and they go through pregnancy, so if you are dating the one women, who does not stimulate your most primitive nature. then its not going to work.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.