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Thread: Rust Remover

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    Default Rust Remover

    So I just got out of a relationship and I realized that I got sucked in to my ex's frame for too long that I even made a sweeping declarition the I'll start focusing on my career, 'NO MORE WOMEN'.LOL

    Then last week there was this new attractive girl in class and by instinct I went up to her and we started talking. But i realized I was asking/talking about mundane questions like "where are you from?" ; "Cool, How is it here?". It's not my game. And I was boring the shit out of myself so I had to get out of there. Also, I realized I was blinking a lot, stuttering, my body language was probably shit and worst of all NO EYE CONTACT,I was a total BETA.

    Initially, I was beating myself up that I lost it. Then, while I was thinking about it in class I realized I said one of the stupidest shit I've ever said to a girl my entire life and I started laughing hysterically.

    So after class, I went up to her and said:
    "Hey, let's go get pizza. come on."

    She said "I'm sorry but,bla bla bla"

    and then again by instinct, I told her a fake story about a homeless man who went halfsies with a slice of pizza with me and now he owns a small Oil Company. We were both laughing the entire time but she still declined probably because I haven't built enough attraction.

    Anyways, I know I'm rusty but I'll keep on practicing on girls in college. I'm slowly getting my confidence back and smiling a lot, giving high fives to girls at gym whom I haven't even spoken to before, maintaining eye contact. Basically, all of the things that I was doing before I got in a relationship.
    I'm slowly preparing to bash that loud gong to wake up my inner alpha.

    Have you guys ever been in a funk? and how did you get out of it?
    Also any advice or insight that you may have are welcome.
    Even if you're a new aspiring PUA let me know what you think.

    Thanks!
    -N

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    Default Re: Rust Remover

    Never stop gaming.
    Even IN a relationship, never quit doing the things that attracted her in the first place.

    Complacency is a killer.


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    Default Re: Rust Remover

    Firstly, I want to congratulate you, It seems that you have realised your own mistakes (so you are not in denial), which is the first step to being great (learn from your mistakes)

    Then you came here looking for another perspective on a forum that specializes in where you are abit rusty. So your seeking the assistance to improve or re improve.

    Equipped with that attitude to self reflect, and seek out assistance, if you constantly apply it, you will the best PUA in the world.

    T-Mal nailed it on the head, but you have already made the mistake of not practicing during a relation, just Learn from that mistake, Its always best to have an Escape plan/Back up Plan - not to be ready to use it, but the confidence in knowing in yourself, if the relationship goes to shit, you got it handled.

    T-mal Has some great threads and Some fucking Sexy products that I have tried and tested Myself and makes the girls approach you.

    Xavier has some great Thread.

    Look at the top right hand corner of this web page and click on the top poster, look at there threads, and first decide what style you want, but since you approached a girl, I think you will be great at Direct Game.

    If you have any questions, Send me a private Message.

    also do not limit yourself to one style, Pick things from other styles/mentors etc, that will fill the whole in the technique you are developing to make your style and to higher your success rate.

    Stay away from articles on how to get your ex back, If you want to develop your technique and style, looking at articles like that will only tempt you towards the past, and not the future of your skill.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Rust Remover

    Also - Report alone = Friend zone,

    Do alot of Kino Escalation ( touching on elbow while talking and shoulder etc)

    Also, Flirt, Make person jokes with them, friendly teasing with alot of smiling and playful pushing etc.

    Negs are your best friend. just use more gentle negs as you are testing the waters, and escalate to slightly more suggestive ones and a little bit more offensive ones as you build each personal relationship with each individual girls.

    Its all about timing/Escalation, Just because you have nailed 10 women in the last 4 weeks becuase you went and did the escalation, dont make the mistake thinking that you can have that kind of relation you have built through escalation on a girl you just met.

    Every girl has a starting point and end, and the time it takes to get to end differs everytime, but being cheecky, and happy is your best starting approach, then escalate.

    A neg Example is " I would kiss you but I have no tictacs to give you (cheeky smile/laugh and give her a lil push on the shoulder) if she appears to be offended saying thats mean, do not try recover by saying sorry or your joking, Just say "awwww, are you always this sensitive" Then (laugh again and give her a lil push) - Thats another neq/Qualifier

    Qualifier is a statement that makes a girl feel the need to prove herself to you.

    Also if you keep that up, she will realize sooking about it/shit test/ pretending to be angry isnt working - any behavior that will try get you to take it back(sorry/I was kidding), which is a submission on your part if you do (beta styles)

    Because you just keep giving it to her. and don't submit, she will have to try a new formula (usually laugh at the teasing/jokes) because the last one wasn't working. You will appear more attractive aswell for more the 3 reasons, not saying sorry (alpha), position of superiority (alpha) Sense of humor, Say what he wants with out caring( confidence/Alpha) She is in a Inferior position have to qualify for getting upset which is like Demonstrating Higher value) on a level above her.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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