Re: Trust issues: foolish mind games
I guess the best starting point for you would be "Why don't I Trust Women?"
Write a list of all the things you suspect women have done to you. From your mother, Sisters, Girlfriends etc. Then Separate the list from ones, you have actually evidence of it happening, and ones you suspect because of minor behaviors they have done.
Then, try understand why that person acted that way, Have they been hurt by a parent, an ex, etc.
Most the things people do, it isn't there fault, there just bad behaviors they haven't identified yet, or reviled why they do it, like your trust issues.
At the end of the day. We should not get into a relationship, If we:
1. Expect us to be the only Male they Talk to.
2. Feel like they need to fit your expectations of her rather then just excepting her for who she is.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.