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    Default Trust issues: foolish mind games

    Every guy to some extent has trust issues with women, and being in the game or knowing about it makes it even harder for some guys to attain quality relationships because of the knowledge we've gained about the female species in general.

    Most puas would be quick to say , just don't care, or approach as many woman as you can , you'll be fine, but in essence all you're doing is just building a facade to hide those issues, and with the right manipulation from the right girl, those issues will resurface again. Some people might say get over your trust issues , but in reality it's easier said then done.

    id like to ask those who gotten over them or are dealing with eroding those issues to share their stories or any tips regarding that journey, I know it's all in the mind , but advice from those more experienced than I , in this department will be highly appreciated.

    Iv ivy been in the game for about 3 years now, and have noticed how some relationships that could have blossomed were ruined by my insecurities, I always thought if I replaced the girls or had a few girls on call would work for me, but clearly I'm not learning anything if they all end the same way, running away from the problem will not solve it, hence I'm asking for help as well as recommendations on any text or books one can read to work on this!

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    Default Re: Trust issues: foolish mind games

    A great book, Which makes you understand women, which will ultimately lead to you not needing trust issues because you will know what they require is: "If Only He Knew" By Gary Smalley.

    Also read up on this:

    making a decision about a possible breakup

    I too realized after 3 failed relationships, that the problem was me, not them. The Learned.

    High Expectations is man worst nightmare
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Trust issues: foolish mind games

    I guess the best starting point for you would be "Why don't I Trust Women?"

    Write a list of all the things you suspect women have done to you. From your mother, Sisters, Girlfriends etc. Then Separate the list from ones, you have actually evidence of it happening, and ones you suspect because of minor behaviors they have done.

    Then, try understand why that person acted that way, Have they been hurt by a parent, an ex, etc.

    Most the things people do, it isn't there fault, there just bad behaviors they haven't identified yet, or reviled why they do it, like your trust issues.

    At the end of the day. We should not get into a relationship, If we:

    1. Expect us to be the only Male they Talk to.
    2. Feel like they need to fit your expectations of her rather then just excepting her for who she is.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Trust issues: foolish mind games

    People often have troubles when dealing with things previously unknown to them. It's normal. It's out of our comfort zone. Having said that, many men have troubles about speaking to women, because that's not something they usually do. So whenever the situation arises, those men start to overthink and get overfucked up.

    My advice is: approach women without having an agenda. Approach with the sole purpose of having fun. With time and experience will see that you won't as much pressure as before and realize that talking to women isn't rocket science.


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