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    Default Being an alpha and attraction

    Hi everyone. I read that being an alpha is good and I read that when in a group the alpha is the one that gets most of the eye contact most of the time. When talking or whatever the betas will look to the alpha to confirm things. I am wondering, I read in Mystery method that being a leader of men is attractive. I am guessing that being a leader of men means being an alpha to men. He says that if you are seen as a leader of men then that is attractive. I am wondering guys, what would lead me to become a leader of men? I am wondering if being in shape rather than being fat would allow me to become a better leader of men. PS there are other ways that I read to become the alpha. That is just one example I read. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Being an alpha and attraction

    Alphamale is a Type of attitude a man carries.
    Muscle is a bunch of Tissue a Animal carries.

    We get confused that the Alphamale is the Biggest/Strongest in the pack but that isn't wrong. The reason more often then not The Alpha is big, is because The Muscle, gives the guy confidence. Or in the animal kingdom, The bigger the animal, the more chance of survival, in the case of wolves battling each other for the position of the Alphamale.

    But you don't have to Fight anybody for the position.

    Being in shape, helps your Posture and because of your overall shape of body which distinguishes a Alpha male is assisted. Like broad Shoulders to the side of your body, not crunched forward or back which takes even chest and back exercises. Traps Help with the shoulder situation. Chest Helps and Lats help to elevate your arms, take more space.

    But true Alpha male is nothing physical. It is simple a relaxed confidence. knowing that this world is yours, all you have to do is take it. Whatever you want.

    The second your worried about the money your going to spend when you go out. You loose the Alpha.
    The second you get caught checking out a chick and look away, you loose your Alpha.
    The second Your group Cuts you out of the conversation You loose your alpha.
    The Second your mate Talks to a girl and your standing there looking around, you loose your alpha.
    The second you move through a crowd, tip toeing, you loose your Alpha.
    The way you sit, If you lean forward. At the bar, if you let girls cut infront.
    The way you dance.

    See when I'm in the club. I have established Alpha so cleary within my group that my all my friends are taller then me, I have 6ft Serbians. 6ft Sierra Leones, Built Afgans, But they automatically adjust to when I'm around.

    Why?

    I have this Natural Confidence. Confidence is like tolerance & Sociopaths. The more you do something the more used to it you will get.

    Tolerance: If I were to drink 10 beers a night for 3 weeks, its probably going to stop getting me drunk.
    Sociopath: The more I repeat a Bad behavior, The less guilt I feel each time do it.
    Confidence: The more I behave a certain way, or do a certain thing, the more confident I will get.

    Me, I was born with a natural tendency to Lead, Just happened. I can follow too, depending on situations. You will need to read up everything you can, apply it to your behavior until it forms a Habit, then you are a natural Alpha. Good thing about being an Alpha, is you can practice it anywhere, With friends, Family, Work, Just practice one Behavior at a time.

    The best one I would practice is take your space.
    When entering a group conversation, dont asked to be excused, put your hands between them and tap them to make room'.

    At the bar, Put your arms up, Rotate your elbows out to the sides of your body until your hands are at the same level as your shoulder and place your fore arms in that exact position on the counter so you are taking more then you need.

    When moving through a crowd, Do not follow your friends, make them follow you, take the lead. Also, do not look for Gaps, if someone is is your way, go half way through them, put your arm on there shoulder, and let them know they have to move.

    When dancing, Keep bumping into people and giving them a touch of your elbow until they get out of your way, use your arms when dancing so people are aware if they walk in that space, there probably going to get hit.

    When sitting on a chair, Head up, arms out, Never cross legs unless its one over the other (Ankle on Thigh) which still takes space. Bring your arse forward, so your back is leaning back, making you look relaxed and confident.

    When you are about to walk into a person stop, let them walk around you. Never move out of there way/ Never say sorry. Laugh if you have to but make sure they move around you ( you can pivot abit but dont move your feet).

    The Idea of an Alpha male, is a man in control, a leader. These behaviors above force people to move around you, Causing you to control the outcome, They show that you take what you want and that your relaxed and confident.

    Remember to Smile.

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Being an alpha and attraction

    One thing that kind of pisses me off and kind of screws with my thinking is that many puas will say that physical fitness does not matter much. I think that is sort of true but what screws my thinking up is thinking that it does not matter at all or at least could be made insignificant in the presence of very good game or really good allies or whatever. I was reading that for most of human history there was not talking and talking had not evolved yet. And then the thing I was reading said that physical shape was not that as important as other things like leadership. Still how the hell are you supposed to be a leader if you are obese. Isn't that right? Being obese is going to get in the way of pickup definitely right? Sure every once in a while if I have my game right I might be able to get a woman but that is a rare occasion. Sure I can get a woman maybe every once in a while but that is nowhere near as good as being to go up to any woman and getting a more positive response than if I was fat. I think it might also be easier to get a good response if you are not obese. Am I right guys? Sorry, I will read the last post about what Tyrone said. Thank you.

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    Being in Shape will help your attractiveness, not really your Alpha state.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Yeah, you're right, I don't know what I was complaining about. I had the thought that maybe it is attractive when men form bonds with each other or "coalitions". Its what chimps do and they are from the same ancient ancestor as humans. One ancient ancestor had 2 babies and one baby became a the descendant for homo sapiens and the other for chimpanzees. Thats what I heard. So I think when men form "coalitions" it is sexy to women and then whoever she perceives to be the alpha gets all the attractiveness she had for the whole group. Thats what I think. Something like that.

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    There is no coalitions when it comes to Testosterone, The man with the highest confidence and least hesitation wins.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Being an alpha and attraction

    Ok, thanks. What do you think allows a person to become alpha? I feel like if I was not fat then I would be able to do things like taking up space and talking louder than everyone else and striving to be the one people look to for eye contact. Being fat makes it uncomfortable to do things like that I think.

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    Default Re: Being an alpha and attraction

    And is being an alpha of women attractive? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Being an alpha and attraction

    DO you have a condition, or just a shitty diet. If you dont like it, do not settle for statements like "I am Fat" "B eing fat" etc. do something about it. then the problem is gone rather then associating it with yourself.

    Alpha of women??? Men leading women or Women leading Women?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Being an alpha and attraction

    Sorry, nevermind about the alpha thing. I do think that maybe dominance with women creates attraction. What gives a person confidence to be dominant over another person? Thank you


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