I think its still good, just bad timing. In general I don't really care what other guys are doing, since I'm usually the alpha, I'm not acting alpha right now/here, because I'm asking for help, but truth is I'm a little threatened by this guy, because if things don't work out with supervisor girl, and I haven't dealt with him yet, it'll just keep messin up my game with every one else I interact with through work. Insecurity is not sexy I know, but this is the most truthful way I can explain the situation, and I want the best input from this site.
Three day rule: Irrelevant. Got it.
Building attraction AND rapport. This is a big sticking point for me.
'Going Straight Into "Rapport" Without Flirting & Building Attraction, Is A Quick Ticket To The "Friend Zone"'
Tyrone1991's signature is the summary of every time I've flopped with a girl. I'm pretty easy going, and I have an easy time building rapport because I'm just screwing around and not trying to get laid right away, but how do I build attraction along with rapport? I don't have an issue stating my intentions blatantly, but it really depends on the girl, and the situation. Right now all I have is text/email, good rapport, and a little attraction. I'm not even sure if all the flirting is actually building attraction, or just creating more rapport.
Also she has made a remark, in person, that her philosophy is to stay single for as long as possible, I'm on the same boat, and I just want to hang out and fark, should I throw this out there during our next interaction? My lifestyle definitely reflects this statement, so no worries that she'll call me out on it.