Alright guys I'm going to try to keep this as brief as I can.
About a week and a half ago I started talking to this chick on POF, got her digits and we started texting, immediately I could tell she wasn't very responsive, even told me on POF that she HATES texting.
I am just now learning the keys to texting game and the game in general (I have been self taught until this point with pretty good results 7 f-closes in 7 months, but now I want to be a pro PUA)
Anyhow after the first day of texting she became super unresponsive, and then the next day she called me out of the blue, (my phone game goes HARD, so it was easy to keep the convo fun and light), however I messed up and tried to continue to keep the convo going via text.
After reading some of the tips and tricks I can definitely tell I went too far in my texting and came off as needy and desperate.
Since then we have spoke on the phone a couple times (She will call me after a day of a couple texts here and there)
However two days ago I made a HUGE texting mistake and basically laid out everything I shouldn't have via text (I am trying to hold your attention, I know i have competition, if you don't wanna talk let me know Etc) it was BAD!
The past couple days I have been texting far less and I am getting some sort of a response, although they are still as short and unresponsive as always.
Its my birthday this weekend and I already have plans on Friday *HB6 and Saturday *HB8
Do I let this thing cool down for the weekend (complete no contact) and then shoot her a phone call on Monday night to try and reignite the situation? If I completely lost her she wouldn't bother with responding, correct?