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Thread: Sexy Redhead From POF

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    Default Sexy Redhead From POF

    Alright guys I'm going to try to keep this as brief as I can.

    About a week and a half ago I started talking to this chick on POF, got her digits and we started texting, immediately I could tell she wasn't very responsive, even told me on POF that she HATES texting.

    I am just now learning the keys to texting game and the game in general (I have been self taught until this point with pretty good results 7 f-closes in 7 months, but now I want to be a pro PUA)

    Anyhow after the first day of texting she became super unresponsive, and then the next day she called me out of the blue, (my phone game goes HARD, so it was easy to keep the convo fun and light), however I messed up and tried to continue to keep the convo going via text.

    After reading some of the tips and tricks I can definitely tell I went too far in my texting and came off as needy and desperate.

    Since then we have spoke on the phone a couple times (She will call me after a day of a couple texts here and there)

    However two days ago I made a HUGE texting mistake and basically laid out everything I shouldn't have via text (I am trying to hold your attention, I know i have competition, if you don't wanna talk let me know Etc) it was BAD!

    The past couple days I have been texting far less and I am getting some sort of a response, although they are still as short and unresponsive as always.

    Its my birthday this weekend and I already have plans on Friday *HB6 and Saturday *HB8

    Do I let this thing cool down for the weekend (complete no contact) and then shoot her a phone call on Monday night to try and reignite the situation? If I completely lost her she wouldn't bother with responding, correct?

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    Default Re: Sexy Redhead From POF

    She's waiting for you to convince her why you are the guy for her now.

    Don't contact during the weekends. You should be out doing stuff. Don't call either. Too pushy a move. Opt for just texting for now. If you're good at creating humour, do just that. It will take her a while to warm back up, so you've just gotta be patient in the meantime.

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    Default Re: Sexy Redhead From POF

    Quote Originally Posted by Jironasaurus View Post
    She's waiting for you to convince her why you are the guy for her now.

    Don't contact during the weekends. You should be out doing stuff. Don't call either. Too pushy a move. Opt for just texting for now. If you're good at creating humour, do just that. It will take her a while to warm back up, so you've just gotta be patient in the meantime.

    While I agree with your point, she has never been a good texter, she often calls me when I try to initiate texting due to the fact she hates to text. (Although this hasn't happened since my needy diatribe I texted her)

    If I just text her back on Monday it will simply fall into the same short responses and eventual non-response that she has done continuously

    If I call her it may seem too pushy like you said.

    That is why I am asking the advice, cuz I am unsure how to proceed at this point.

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    Default Re: Sexy Redhead From POF

    That's why you have to be very patient. Your texts have to be very precise, and you cannot afford to have any fluff in it.

    It's all about getting her to invest into the interaction once again.

    The simpler solution would be to get her on the phone. BUT... she's not ready. So you just have to wait it out while you do very short spurts of texting. This could take weeks.

    Which is why I suggested making full use of humor. It's to get her into a positive mood, so that she will be more inclined to respond better and faster too.

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    Default Re: Sexy Redhead From POF

    Thats a good point, and apparently the price I have to pay for appearing needy like that.

    I have only texted her a couple times since and they have all been very funny and short, very precise to hit on the key humor points and to put in easy hooks for her to respond to, even though the responses are brief. There is still light at the end of the tunnel if I can maintain patience (Which is the weakest part of my game at this point)

    Thanks for the advise!

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    Default Re: Sexy Redhead From POF

    Welcome! (And apparently I need 30 characters)

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    Default Re: Sexy Redhead From POF

    She's obviously not looking for texting buddies, so you ever gonna ask her out on a date?

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    Default Re: Sexy Redhead From POF

    I did ask her during one of our phone conversations, we had a date planned for Saturday, but then she had to work and bailed, which helped lead to the needy text.


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