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Thread: Crazy into me, then takes forever to text me back

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    Default Crazy into me, then takes forever to text me back

    Hi. I met this girl online a couple of weeks back. I started gaming her, and eventually had a date with her a few days ago. Everything went perfect and she seemed crazy into me. The next day she texted me telling me how much she loved to meet me and that she had a lot of fun. I told her that we were going to the movies this week, and she answered very excited that she would love to. A few days later I started talking to her on Instagram. I just said "Hi." She answered my message the day later. She's been taking a long while to answer me. The last message I sent her was a day ago and she hasn't replied. I'm confused. I get that she may be busy, but taking days to answer a message implies to me that she may have lost interest, and I don't know why. Actually, I've seen her online on FB replying to other people's posts and sharing stuff. Seems like she's ignoring me. She may not even reply to my last message, tbh. I haven't been clingy or needy. There's no reason as to why she would be acting this way. The purpose of me messaging her on IG was to set up the movie date, but since she has been so slow in answering I haven't done so. If she does reply to my message today, how am I supposed to respond? I don't want to reply to her today (if she does message me) only for her to answer me 2 days later. I was thinking of confronting her. Telling something along the lines of "Hey, I know you may be busy, but if you're going to answer my messages days later I would rather you don't answer my messages at all." Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Crazy into me, then takes forever to text me back

    Why have you messaged her on IG, FB etc... Don't you have her phone number?

    How many messages total (across all apps SC/IG/FB/Texting/Etc.) have you sent her with no response?

    And definitely DO NOT confront her and send that message. Total AFC move. I've done that far too many times and I have to tell you brother it always hurts more than it helps.

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    Default Re: Crazy into me, then takes forever to text me back

    She hasn't replied to my last message (only one). Like I said, I haven't been clingy or needy about this. I'm not the type of guy who when he gets ignored texts the person again. The reason I messaged her on IG is because my phone has bad reception where I live. I don't see how confronting her is a "AFC move." I don't like what she's doing. One would think an alpha would be honest and not accept behavior that he doesn't like. I haven't contacted, and doubt I will unless she does so first anyway. If she does though, I'm not sure how to react. I just don't want to reply to her message only for her to do the same thing again

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    Default Re: Crazy into me, then takes forever to text me back

    It's easy to understand why confronting is an AFC move: if you get upset, or affected by her it means that she can affect you (duh), as in, she as power over you. You're basically saying you're upset because a girl you saw one time didn't answer you. Does that shit make sense to you mate?

    Don't you think that's not very good for you to be upset by a girl whom you're not in a relationship with?
    Your purpose is not to be affected. As in, by being non-reactive.

    If she didn't answer your reply, it was because it was either pointless, not funny, or by any other reason.
    Tell me something: if she was crazy into you, why the fuck didn't you kiss her? If you had time to suggest going to see a movie (I assume that it wouldn't be in your home, so it would be time wasted if you wanted to fuck her), you had enough time to kiss her. A little less conversation, a little more action please.

    If she was attracted to you, she felt frustrated after the date, because:
    a) she either thought you weren't that interested into her, so she thought "fuck off, let's suck another dick"
    b) she thought "oh, this guys attracted to me, but he's unwilling to make a move. Why is he such a pussy?"


    So you fucked up mate. Having said that, why would you call her out? She didn't make any mistake.


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