So I'm just wondering that there are way to many people talking about dhvs with the thought of having to show off etc( or maybe thats just me).
Yet there are a LOT of guys out there that do not have much to dhv with (whether a career etc) Yet these are the guys that get laid the most, like insane amounts!( I saw this one documentary where a couple in which the lady was rich as fudge and the guy seemed practically homeless, was balding, not gifted in the looks department, did not seem socially intelligent - as to what I could tell, but maybe he is off camera- yet the lady he was with adored the guy-> she said she just "loves it when he plays his guitar" -->here we go again with this girls digging rockstars bs)( I understand certain identities themselves give girls a rush, as some are linked to some sort of dangerous thrilling lifestyles)
I was watching this 21 studios video and it just became more clear to me. Intelligent men that are career minded focus more on logical interactions which bore the women to death, whereas these other guys working a minimum wage job or w.e use more emotional intelligence as their logical intelligence may not be to reliable. I feel if I don't have my career etc set up then I'm not good enough, this is not true yet this haunts me for some reason at all times. Mainly because I know there are some guys with KILLER game out there and they may be working as a truck driver or some sh*t.
Is there a way to dhv without coming off as show off like, clinging on to just your career and material possessions etc.
I mean I understand that, having a strong frame, having standards and a character, screening, being socially intelligent , having other women pre-selecting you, solid body language, not giving a fark, being a successful risk taker etc, are dhvs in it themselves but is there more to it? Something these natural guys are doing and just crushing it with, that I'm not aware of?
If some Mpuas could shed some light on this, would be cool
OR is it all really as simple as it all just being a frame game as to how she perceives you all together and the way you behave... it seems so complicated yet so simple...
Thanks and as always I appreciate your feedback