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    Default That question after making out

    Hi guys,

    I would like to hear how do you respond to the question "What are your intentions?", after the first time you have sex with a girl.

    If I really like a girl and I want to get into a relationship with her, I will tell something like "I would like to meet you better and see how it goes".

    But most of the times I know from the start that I don't want to get involved in a serious relationship with that girl so I respond like this "I like your company and we can hang out but I don't want you to belong to me. I want you to be free.". Most of the times they don't agree with this because they want a relationship, and we stop communication. Because of this, I'm thinking if it is better to start getting into "relationships" so they shut up, and after 2-3 months break up with them. But this will involve drama and broken hearts which is something I don't like.

    How do you handle this?

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    Default Re: That question after making out

    Say "I'm attracted to you, what's your intention?"
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: That question after making out

    DO NOT get into a relationship if you don't want to. You mentioned:

    "I'm thinking if it is better to start getting into "relationships" so they shut up, and after 2-3 months break up with them".

    This is not a good mindset to be in. You are in control, you decide where you want the interaction to go. As Tyrone said, keep it simple, let her know your intentions if you'd like, and confidently tell her this. If she's not interested in a casual thing (which it seem like this is what you want), there are plenty of other HB's out there...

    Enjoy.

    - Shoreguy
    "She'll forgive you for being a man...but she WON'T forgive you for being a p*ssy"

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    Default Re: That question after making out

    Tell her you like to let the chips fall where they may. Tell her you find her sexy. Enjoy her company while it lasts. She will eventually up the ante.


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