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Thread: quick help on texting here..

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    Post quick help on texting here..

    So a year or so ago I knew this girl but was friendzoned.. no contact for a year and she text me out of the blue. btw jackaroo was her friendzoney nickname for me.

    Her: Jackaroo!!
    me: so thats the best you can come up with for naming our kid? (11 days later- i forgot to reply)
    her: funny one. but nah i called him roodles. (next day)
    her: the next is to be astrowhopper
    me: first things first.... you cant name a baby you havent attempted yet (2 days later)

    She hasn't responded to the last text. Some PUA on reddit suggested using the text to sexualize the conversation. Now, I do want to meet her (none of this 'forget her- plenty of girls' etc etc), but she may be in a different country so a chat would be good. i can wait for her to reply a few more days but i dont want the convo to die already.

    How can I recover? or at least.. what can i do/say to get back to a conversation with her

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    Default Re: quick help on texting here..

    ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhh


    I guess you jumped the gun a bit. You guys just got back to reconnecting, you should have made the conversation fun and steered it naturally towards that route. You went 0 to a 100 rather quickly. You must like the friendzone.

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    Default Re: quick help on texting here..

    Actually I was just going to go along with the names joke but these PUAs told me not to do that and turn it sexual. I shouldnt have listened to them. but anyways, is there any way i can recover by saying anything?

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    Default Re: quick help on texting here..

    you could have gone down a different route. Just sounded cringy to me the next text. They are right tho, you did have to have some hint that you want more than friends.

    You can reengage with something else the next time you chat with her. Just make it fun/flirty.

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    Default Re: quick help on texting here..

    I just have zero confidence in my own texting ability so i went with a PUAs text suggestion.

    So unless i can recover the convo at present- should i leave it a few months?

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    Default Re: quick help on texting here..

    this girl is useless to you until you know you can meet her here and now. Reintiate when she is here. Call her with no warning. So she can't hide behind texts and delaying, Speak confidently and question after question on her. Be cheeky, make sure it's close to when she's land, Jetlag may work to your advantage and also she hasn't formed a routine yet.

    say: what are your plans on (day)?
    So if it's Sunday you call say like the next Tuesday night because she hasn't planned shit that far.

    her: I don't know
    you: great!, see you at (place) & (time) and you can tell me about this whole trip. Sounds good yeah?
    her: yeah(sounds good yeah? - makes people say "yeah" it's a sales trick that I always use to get the girl to agree or anyone)

    and as soon as she says yeah, close the conversation as soon as possible.

    say: great! See you then. Bye (hang up). Then she's all yours. Never give a girl a chance to think, fast, direct & assertive. There thinking is our over thinking. Just Bang, Bang, Bang, Bye. You want her to respond instantly. Texting is a women's best friend, so it's you trying to get her while granting her the upper hand.

    Remove her power. Call off a different or private number
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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