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    Default I can't properly be a fuck buddy.

    I was told by a poster that I give the girls I seduce a taste of that long term relationship feeling unintentionally. And I do. Not because I want her to be my girlfriend, it is i just enjoy women so much that I want to watch them speak for hours. I love seeing their eyes light up about their hopes and dreams. Obviously, this leads to the girl liking me and trying to be the one. But I can't do it, so I am constantly nexting the girls...which makes me feel lonely.

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    Default Re: I can't properly be a fuck buddy.

    Have you established your intentions bud?

    Tell her that you find it heaps attractive when she talks about her future ambitions, but do not want any Labels or exclusive. Just to continue what it is (and sex if you haven't got it yet).

    If you have and she still likes you, its her fault.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: I can't properly be a fuck buddy.

    Yo Mr. Assertive,

    Check this - you're kinda being a real asshole lol.
    Here's why - you're subcommunicating to her that you want a deep, intimate relationship by talking to her for hours and hours about deep shit. So she's getting all wrapped up in her emotions in that very feminine way, she's feeling all these very strong feelings for you (females are hard-wired to want to lock down a man so he can be a good provider/protector for her and her children.) And then you next her ass haha! You're throwing her into a world of deep pleasure and attachment, then you're ripping it all away.
    Obviously I'm not saying that fucking a lot of girls and steady nexting them is bad. It's not.
    But, like Tyrone said, you have to make your intentions known somehow.
    My advice would be to just make a statement about "attachments" or "labels" in the objective. Something like "Don't you just hate attachments? Like, it's funny to watch people create a prison for themselves out of their attachments, their car, their xbox, their girlfriend. It's so much better to be wild and free, don't you think?"

    Hope that helps, bruv!
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    Default Re: I can't properly be a fuck buddy.

    I hear what you are both are saying. I do openly talk about not wanting kids yet, not wanting to settle down because i will be going back to school and am openly flirtatious with everyone. I subcommincate pre selection. I think what I will take away is that it isn't my fault. If she knows and continues to persue, I'm not totally to blame. I do gain an awareness of the fact that she is liking me by the way she looks at me, little gestures like kissing me on my shoulders after sex (didn't expect that from my reconnected fuck buddy as of recent).


    Now as for nexting I don't blow her off forever. I usually slow things down to a point where I can comfortably talk to them in a friendly way again, being weary that sex will re-trigger that romance. If I want to repeat a cycle, but I never promise them monogamy. I do flirt with the idea that if it was a different time in my life I would consider it, but maybe that is where Jaybee mentions that might be an assholish move. It's just hard to not talk about deep things, girls gets so into it and I can watch them talk for awhile, obviously I have a life and have to tell them I have to go somewhere but they enjoy the chats and I like providing them that time


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