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    xlosmuertosx is offline PUA in Training
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    Exclamation Girlfriend's mindset

    So whenever we get into a fight, I somehow manage to sort things out and reach a verdict that favor both of us.
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    Even though everything's been sorted out and I ask her if it is and she says it too. Well I feel it isn't
    Because
    she still is in that standoffish mood, she carry's that toxicity throughout almost ranging on to a couple of days.

    Now I have talked to her about her behavior, she too knows its bad but she gets all defensive and says "That's the way I am, why can't you love me the way I am

    What should I do........

    Should I let her carry the toxicity around and let it die out or should I try to change her...

    Or any other course of action ?

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    Default Re: Girlfriend's mindset

    You should get the toxicity out if you can. Girls are passive aggressive. If it's an unreasonable fight where she is being illogical then you let the storm pass. If it's something a little more significant, get to the root of the problem. Speak to her in emotions, girls will speak back two fold.

    And you you shouldn't really try to change anyone. Either they want to change or they don't. It's not your job to get them to grow up. I left an ex two years ago because she turned out to be immature. I didn't like the way she handled problems so I left her.


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