Re: Question about first date, what to do next?
A little Tip. If you even remotely suggest meeting a chick and you haven't got a response. SHE READ IT!!!! If she Answered back to the other part of the message of having a nice time it means she can read, not illiterate. So she read it all, she avoided the question.
This should tell you. Pull back!!! I have now over invested. She has the Power. Go back, Rebuild attraction and re ask or find another chick.
Not ask again. You give her even more Value and you less. Simple law of men and women. There is always a Reacher(you in this case) & a settler (her in this case) but she doesn't want to settle, she wants to be the Reacher. So you need to show her that you are the one who has to settle by Either Highering your Value, or lowering hers.
Another note: I'm starting a New rule. Men shouldn't be allowed to Text. Calls only. She has all the power in the world if there is something between you and her giving her control of the situation and her responses. When you call, women are forced to be polite because there very scared of this label one gets called "BITCH" which allows you to take the power and Use Fast Response techniques that allow her to respond but not to think. Plus if texting gives a women power to control responses because she isn't forced to be polite. Then how does that make you look if you are using it? Weak. She wants a man... not a teacup pig. Calling and Being slightly assertive(aggressive ) is ALPHA male. Plus its more Personal, she can atleast hear your voice rather then looking at slightly robotic letters on a screen.
Do not text her again. Call her on private number.
You: Hey!! How are you? (overly optimistic)
She: I'm Good?.... Sorry, Who is this?
You: Its Tyrone, You said you were not a big texter, I realized that when I asked you out through Text and got your crappy response (laugh), So we will go out for drinks next (whenever), Sounds good yeah?
^^^^ (See that is what you call Dropping a Fucking Bomb Shell on her) she has no idea how to respond to that causing her to panic. But i lead her response with a Que: Sounds good yeah?
Me: sweet, see you there. (hang up).
Because its over the phone she has to respond there and then, but because its a Bomb Shell That doesn't happen to her often she cant respond causing her to go into panic, Then you the lovely hero save her by giving her a simple Que like: Sounds good yeah?
Providing her with a response because she cant, and her taking the easiest & only path of resistance which is yours.
If you texts, She can sit on that for days. Call her.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.