Re: Social Value and female attraction
Value isn't based on anything but you. It's great that women are letting you in. But don't get in the habit of feeling valued by others. You are a great skater, people ask you for help and you are skilled enough to be able to provide a solution for them. Wether they see and recognise that has nothing to do with it. Value is when someone else is attempting to devalue you and your are so sure about yourself that you can laugh and even turn it into a joke still devaluing yourself verbally but because your so confident in yourself people see the value. Instead of someone devaluing you and you are either justifying or trying to prove them wrong or creating excuses which is AFC.
There is no technique for value. You just need to value yourself and your potential and everyone else will admire you. It probably has a simple explanation as well. When you value yourself you are confident which changes your body language and probably releases pheromones. Which others subconsciously detect and react accordingly.
I look at myself and my character and life and I think I'm amazing. You may not but I do. Not because of some technique but because I recognised everything I've achieved and survived and what I've become and I know I'm the best. The results speak for themselves.
It's not hard to do. Just make a list of things that make you amazing no matter how insignificant it is. Keep adding to that list. Keep going through that list until you are sitting there nodding your head because you realised how freaking awesome you are. Then the endorphins real ease and you feel ever more, then you find other things and then you will feel like you deserve a queen, not just a tight dress and a self righteous attitude.
Thats ts when you start to qualify women, not to seduce them but to simply see if they qualify because you know what you deserve.
eventually it will become so consistent that it will be pretty much every day, no hesitation on approach, you will maximise result and minimise time to get them because your time is more valuable then her bull shit. You will be getting results everytime asking as that confidence is there and new things you will try you will get confident in because you know you can learn anything with enough motivation and dedication. Then you get to a point were woman start picking you up and you have done absolutely fuck all but have walked within 20 metres of them.
So it's good, keep approaching, keep trying new things, recognise that you are a King and as you learn more you will realise what you can learn and see your potential and chase it. You will get closer and your potential will grow and you will be more confident everytime. Everything is an opportunity to learn and once learnt you are more confident and more opportunities appear. You will reach a point were everybody around you at the same age will make you feel years in advanced. When you open your mouth people's eyes light up in adornment because what is general knowledge to you or being so experienced and empathetic you can see thing most can't and they think your a genius but that's just everyday to you.
anyway that's value to me. Inner game.
If I'm genuinely attracted to some one physically. From the moment I see them to the moment I kiss them is about 1 minute to 1.5 minutes. My technique is I'm so confident that I'm just honest, and it works because I have such a high value of myself that I just take what I want and it's mine. I'm the one who is rejecting now. Friend zoning women. Women Qualifying themselves to me, marketing, and men, they give me so much respect, not even intimidation but actual respect and I'm just doing me, but this wasn't always the case. I had to work on my inner game. Self value and learn, try, experience, try something else, accept Criticism, drop pride and get out of that victim mentality of poor me.
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.