Hey guys me again!
So I work with this girl, lots of flirting when I see her at work, but doesn't happen often since we work totally opposite shifts. I finally got a date with her on Tuesday, things went well, it ended with a kiss close, I dropped her off at her car and drove away.
Today I muddled things up a bit. I showed more interest than usual. I posted something to her FB, then started texting her a few hours later, the texting bit went well, I created tension by telling her over text that there was something I wanted to show her, but I can't tell her just what it was. She was receptive and asked what it was. I think I messed up when I called her, I wanted to talk to her, and used the excuse that I was driving, and couldn't text her back. She didn't pick up, and I left a message about how I can't show her this thing that was a part of my world, until she has shown me something that was a part of her world first, and that I would text her when I can. So I got where I was going and texted her this:
*We were talking about jogging in the rain, earlier.
'I only ran one mile, so it felt great, any more and the chafe monster woudl have had its way with me.
I can't tell you what I have in store, but you know that I value experiences, and emotions above material things, so what I have planned lies in those realms. But you have to let me farther into your world first. What can you offer me that I haven't already experienced?'
I basically repeated the voice mail I left her.
She responds half an hour later with this
'Hey! I'll call you later this afternoon. I'm getting ready to go into an appointment. Not sure how long it's going to take.'
'Ok, enjoy yourself. I'll be working in the pm, so call me tonight if you want.'
That was 12:34 pm yesterday, and our last communication. I feel like I've lost control of the frame, am I wrong? I feel strongly that I'm being shit tested, where do I go from here? Usually I just stay silent, and talk to some other girl for a day or two then open another line of communication. Any feed back is appreciated!