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    Default 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    Hey guys me again!

    So I work with this girl, lots of flirting when I see her at work, but doesn't happen often since we work totally opposite shifts. I finally got a date with her on Tuesday, things went well, it ended with a kiss close, I dropped her off at her car and drove away.

    Today I muddled things up a bit. I showed more interest than usual. I posted something to her FB, then started texting her a few hours later, the texting bit went well, I created tension by telling her over text that there was something I wanted to show her, but I can't tell her just what it was. She was receptive and asked what it was. I think I messed up when I called her, I wanted to talk to her, and used the excuse that I was driving, and couldn't text her back. She didn't pick up, and I left a message about how I can't show her this thing that was a part of my world, until she has shown me something that was a part of her world first, and that I would text her when I can. So I got where I was going and texted her this:

    *We were talking about jogging in the rain, earlier.

    'I only ran one mile, so it felt great, any more and the chafe monster woudl have had its way with me.
    I can't tell you what I have in store, but you know that I value experiences, and emotions above material things, so what I have planned lies in those realms. But you have to let me farther into your world first. What can you offer me that I haven't already experienced?'

    I basically repeated the voice mail I left her.

    She responds half an hour later with this

    Her:
    'Hey! I'll call you later this afternoon. I'm getting ready to go into an appointment. Not sure how long it's going to take.'

    Me:
    'Ok, enjoy yourself. I'll be working in the pm, so call me tonight if you want.'

    That was 12:34 pm yesterday, and our last communication. I feel like I've lost control of the frame, am I wrong? I feel strongly that I'm being shit tested, where do I go from here? Usually I just stay silent, and talk to some other girl for a day or two then open another line of communication. Any feed back is appreciated!

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    It feels to me that you I are giving more that she is. Kinda like you are going overboard with things, rather than let it flow naturally. I always believe in the cat string theory. Too much attention and the cat who in the beginning wanted it so bad, starts to get annoyed and wants to leave. I own two cats, I sprinkle my attention to them and they get addicted to the uncertainty that they are around me 24/7. It happens with girls too.


    But situation could be different. She mentioned an appointment. This appointment could be anything, and maybe she got sidetracked by life. It happens. I'd let it cool down for a day or two and reopen like nothing happened.

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    Truth is I'm totally more interested than she is, she has a friend with bene, and there is another guy at work pursuing her. I am talking to two other girls atm, but not sleeping with either, so I have other things to concentrate on, but the reality is, she is my main goal.
    I"ll keep away for a few days, and text her again, thanks for affirming my thoughts. If any one else has any other ideas, please chime in, I throw my self at your feet, I am here to learn.

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    I can tell. And she will pick up on that too. Girls go through being pursued all the time. I suggest you work on the others more. I've been there where I just want one but naturally it came to where I wanted it because I focused on everything else except her. Ironic isn't it. Lol, as long as you don't throw yourself at any girls feet you are doing better than 90% of the male population. But we accept that behavior here .

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    See:

    Her:
    'Hey! I'll call you later this afternoon. I'm getting ready to go into an appointment. Not sure how long it's going to take.'

    She hasn't asked you a question, she has closed the conversation. Why reply?

    I would ignore that and do whatever else I have got going on.

    Handz, I like your style, stay silent, talk to other girls. But yeah, next level is if she isn't investing in the conversation like example above. Close and let her re open, never send last text being open last text should be you controlling the the situation by closing.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    Mr. Assertive: Supporting my other post on texting.

    He said last paragraph of this thread this : That was 12:34 pm yesterday, and our last communication. I feel like I've lost control of the frame, am I wrong?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    So should I re-open by texting her in a day or two, or just let it go and wait for her to text back? Up until this point, I've never sent the last text, it has always been her, and we've been texting for almost a month, she called me once, and we talked for about an hour. Since then we've reverted to texting again, and my phone call that day was the only time I called her since we spoke, that was at least a week ago.

    I have a date tomorrow with another girl at work, but she doesn't know this. She does know that I'm dating other women, and that my hobbies(swing dancing, hiking) put me on a collision course with many women in my area.

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    You texted her for a month?!?!?!?! Have you slept with her?

    Firstly, Don't join the stock market! Don't even bother (Re)-opening her. She said she will contact you and if she doesn't then she isn't a woman of her word, so later on if it happens and she say "Hes just a friend". Learn it now instead of the lesson being harsher later. The lesson repeats until the lesson is learned.

    If you invest in a woman and do not get a return, Don't try and win your money back with the same faulty investment just to loose more. Especially when you have 3.5 Billion other Investments to work on. Go to another Opportunity and Open it. Not (RE)open her.

    Go on your date. Have the best time of your life. Forget the other one. Come back glowing and keep tuning, make her 1 of 20 not 1 of 2 or 3 women. She will become of little importance then.

    In return, you will become more confident. She will witness that and probably Open you. If she doesn't replace Number 20 with a new hotter more sophisticated version. Recognize how good you have becoe and every time you see her you will smile because you are so glad that didnt happen because you are at a higher value and your current girl is every twice as better then her or the other 20 of them are better. You obviously can get them. So get them.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    NO! No I have not slept with her!

    The circumstance is weird, but I know that alot of it is my in experience with the game.

    This whole thing started right at the time I discovered this forum, so most of it is documented, here is the earlier thread if you need the full back story:
    Business, and pleasure

    This lesson has been repeated many times for me, that's why I started this thread. Here is a summary: We don't see each other often(once per week), and our schedule finally synched for a date the other day. She was definitely trying to friendzone me, and I worked my way out, then we made out for a while, and there was plenty of groping, had I some where to go I could have probably F-closed her, and the next day is where this thread picks up.

    Also update, I went into work today for multiple errands, and we saw each other for a few minutes. The first time she came in the room there were three other people present, I was massaging one of the other girls I work with(whom I teased into biting my finger twice, just not in front of the subject of this thread, this is not the girl I'm seeing tomorrow, I'm not even talking to her atm...but I'm gonna see where this goes, later) and only said hi to her, and kept flirting with the girl I'm massaging.
    She left and came back in, she needed the computer in the room, so I'm gonna assume she didn't come back to check on me. On our date she gave me a pinky ring, so I called her over and gave her a rock that I previously told her about, and told her 'Rock, for ring, we're even', she checked my finger for her ring, and I specifically wore a different ring given to me by another chick, she frowned, and I said jokingly 'You're not the only girl to have given me a ring.' and she walked over to where she put her stuff on the far side of the room. I kept talking to every one else, and made some plans to hang out with the other guy who was pursuing her(this is getting complicated).
    I was applying Tyrone's 'hot, cold' formula so I wasn't rude to her, and I maintained my alpha energy and just didn't pay attention to her, but I'm not sure if I was negging too hard.
    Any ways outside of this I haven't had any contact with her since this thread began.

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    Default Re: 'I'll call you later' Shit test

    Don't ever end a sentence with "if you want."

    You're an alpha male, if she doesn't want to talk to you then you move on.


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