If anyone thinks that an AMOG (Alpha Male Other Guy) is bad just wait until you meet a Predator, who is arguably the most dangerous competition you will ever face.
So for anyone who may not know the way that a Predator works, it goes something like this.
Let's suppose that maybe you lack a little confidence and as such you maybe don't get lucky that often, in other words you are still learning in the dating game.
But guess what this time you've cracked it and have just pulled yourself a Hot Girl and up to now things are going great!
You're taking her out for Trips and Meals and even making out, at which point you may be thinking, 'What could possibly go wrong'
Well here is where your impossible dream is now about to unravel, as if you haven't got many or indeed any Male Friends, all of that is now about to change.
As all the guys you hardly know, or maybe just say 'Hi' to, will suddenly crowd around you and want to be your best Mate.
The only problem being that they don't give a Stuff about you, as its Your Girl they're interested in, where in order to get to know her, they first have to get to know You!
Is this already ringing some Bells for someone out there?
They will come up for a chat in the street or buy you a drink in the Bar, as they slowly worm their way in to your life, where they will use every trick in the book, to convince your Girlfriend that He is her Boyfriends best mate.
So when they see her out on her own, they will stop for a 'friendly chat' and in the event She is going somewhere or is maybe on her way home, then the next thing he says is 'Hey let me give you a lift'
What could be more innocent than a friendly gesture like that but sooner or later, he will be escalating 'Hey let's grab a Coffee and then I'll run you home'
And while you may still have the Girl (at least for the time being) its really him that's holding all the Aces.
As most Girls really love to Flirt as well as enjoy the attention, of any guy that they are still getting to know.
And that guy is 'Him' it's 'Not You!'
Best of all from his point of view, he has no responsibility to her whatsoever.
After all why should he?
As you are the one who is having to pick up all of those Relationship Bills.
The expensive Cups of Coffee Latte
Trips to the Movies/Theatre/Bowling........The list goes on.................
Where as such it won't be too long before you end up as 'The Mothership' which She can Flirt from
At which point you understandably, start to feel under pressure and insecurity starts setting in and begins to eat your Confidence away.
Are you entertaining enough to keep her interested?
Are you making out enough to keep her satisfied?
Why does She always seem so pleased to see him?
Why did She invite him in for Coffee when you weren't there?
So having nicely played himself in, then 'He ups his Game'
Inviting you both to a Party or a Barbecue on a night when he knows you can't make it.
But 'Hey you won't mind if 'Jenny' goes and don't worry I'll see She gets to bed on time!
Or he gets two Concert Tickets for her Favourite Band and he was going to take his Own Girlfriend but She has fallen sick and cannot go.
So since the Ticket is already paid for, it would be a real shame to waste it, so you won't mind if I take 'Jenny'? I'll see that She gets home on time.
There are 101 Scenarios but I'm sure that you get the idea, as a step at a time he gradually starts to take your Girlfriend over, having lots of fun with her while you are paying the bills and end up turning yourself into the 'Bore Friend' as She doesn't see him as often as She sees you.
Where any objection that you raise is unfortunately going to label you as Controlling and over possessive and is sure to bring out that well worn response.
'Hey Bro, what's the matter' don't you trust her?
Which of course he'll say in front of her.
After a couple of glasses of Wine and under the right circumstances, anything can happen and you know it but worse of all She's having fun with another guy, that isn't you!
And one mistake on your part could be all it takes, to have her running straight into his arms.
I've been there myself and I've suffered, to the point where I've been torn apart and suffered all the heartache and all the insecurity that goes along with that, especially if you find it hard to find someone to easily replace her.
And so as a point of discussion, as this is no doubt something that affects a lot of Guys.
So without resorting to Physical means.
How would you handle a Predator?