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    Default Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of needs

    Hi there guys. I was reading that women are attracted to safety and security and that our subconscious also wants those things. I read that a woman will feel attracted to a man that makes her feel safe and secure and that when a man wears expensive shoes and stuff it can communicate to her that he is safe and secure and that he has abundance and can afford to spend money on those things because he has all of his other things he needs covered. I am wondering, if a man has done very well at fulfilling his needs on the famous Maslows hierarchy of needs, is that attractive? I have heard that being in state is pretty important in getting women and I feel like when I had more of my needs fulfilled I was more able to be in state. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    Barking up the wrong tree sideways is still barking up the wrong tree. And it seems you are barking up the wrong tree: Wealth = Attraction. Confidence and Game = Attraction. But nice shoes won't hurt.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    You are right, you know, I was just thinking about something which was that alpha male chimpanzees usually increase their chances of staying alpha male and becoming alpha male by grooming others. I also read that grooming is the chimpanzee equivalent of helping someone else.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    Quote Originally Posted by Bobsburgerman View Post
    You are right, you know, I was just thinking about something which was that alpha male chimpanzees usually increase their chances of staying alpha male and becoming alpha male by grooming others. I also read that grooming is the chimpanzee equivalent of helping someone else.
    Ah, now THAT is an interesting insight. I typically game at roller skating. I like helping visitors to skate. But now that I am gaming, my ulterior motive is indirect approaches, and being gentlemanly with the ladies. I catch, release, and reconnect. All too often, you see Betas be gentlemanly and then stand there like a puppy waiting to be petted. I help, move on, help several others, do my thing skating, then come back around. Then I chat and work some Kino, and things go pretty well from there. I need to work now on rapport and qualification.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    Ok now here is something that is very off topic but I am not sure about. I asked some women in a webcam-like chat if it was attractive if a man could easily beat them in a fight and I got some yes answers. Is that what leads to dominance? I heard that dominance can be attractive to women. I don't know how right it is. Maybe having friends that would support you if anyone was ever mean to you is attractive also? I have no idea. But it kind of sounds like dominance to me. I don't know guys. Maybe the ability to overpower a woman?

    I was just kind of testing my idea out in an online webcam thing and I think that maybe having supportive friends that could support you is attractive. In the whole dominance scenario. Like if people are afraid to be mean to you or say anything bad to you because you have friends that could support you. Maybe that is attractive. But I don't think a woman would say that it is but it might be. That and also being able to be stronger than a woman also. I think that too maybe.

    In other words, maybe it is attractive when a woman is afraid to offend you because you have lots of support and things like that. I know it sounds terrible but that might be how we are programmed to think because of how we evolved and things like that. I don't know.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    Sorry for not editing correctly.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    Quote Originally Posted by Bobsburgerman View Post
    Ok now here is something that is very off topic but I am not sure about. I asked some women in a webcam-like chat if it was attractive if a man could easily beat them in a fight and I got some yes answers. Is that what leads to dominance? I heard that dominance can be attractive to women. I don't know how right it is. Maybe having friends that would support you if anyone was ever mean to you is attractive also? I have no idea. But it kind of sounds like dominance to me. I don't know guys. Maybe the ability to overpower a woman?
    No. It is assertiveness. Being a leader. Men have millions of years of leading. Women have millions of years of programming that leads them to submit.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    Bobsburger/Dillinger.

    Your last few post:

    Being in shape (physically attractive) help being Alphamale. Your obesity
    Social proof and helping women attractive.
    Telling women you make $10 an hour made her breathe harder (attraction)
    Having Money fancy shoes is attractive.

    look, these all help. Especially with initial attraction. But the second you open your mouth. All of that goes out the window if you have no game. Although it's worth investigating, your focus should be on the product quality, not the advertisement. If the quality of the product is good, it will sell itself.

    No point me doing a poo and putting it in a chocolate wrapper and expecting people to take a second bite let alone give a good review.

    focus on your game, get results, men will see that, women will see that. That's your advertising. Get the confidence from it and you will become alpha. Then if you want to maximise results (sales) then focus on money, fame (advertisement).

    there good techniques, but you have to be able to follow through. So get the game, then sell it.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    You're not off topic, I'm just trying to give you some insight that if your focus is based on representation without being able to maintain it after engagement then it won't be worth much. Your research is good. Practical but requires other factors to be worth anything. There is no point me doing my representation if I'm not going to be able to say/do what's needed to get results.

    As for grooming other males like the ape family. It may give off the wrong message
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Safety and security and female attraction and Maslows hierarchy of need

    Thanks everyone. For what its worth, I hypnotically suggested to a woman online to 'be very honest' and then i asked her if it is attractive if a man is stronger than a woman and she said when a man is stronger and also psychologically(ment ally) stronger then it is attractive to her. I am wondering guys, how do I become mentally stronger than a woman?


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