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Thread: Does being interesting count for more than being good looking

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    Default Does being interesting count for more than being good looking

    Does being interesting count for more than being good looking or do you need both.

    The reason I'm asking this Question, is that I seen some ugly Guys, who walk around with some really unbelievable Chicks on their arms.

    What's that all about?

    Maybe its down to the Confidence thing, that really turns girls on.
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    Default Re: Does being interesting count for more than being good looking

    Yo alphabeta,

    Many character traits count for more than being good looking.

    Being interesting/cultured is one trait, but not the most powerful trait.
    If I were to make a points scale it would look like this.

    Being congruent with a dominant/masculine/sexually-entitled self-image (aka having TRUE confidence)(aka passing shit-tests): +10
    Being the source of her good emotions: +9
    Speaking and moving slowly: +8
    Being completely non-needy: +8
    Having your eye-contact game tight: +7
    Being bold: +7
    Touching properly: +7
    Having upright posture: +5
    Playfully Teasing her: +5
    Having Brad Pitt-good looks: +5
    Telling interesting stories: +4
    Being mostly non-needy: +4
    Having interesting friends to introduce her to: +3
    Knowing cool places/venues to go to: +3
    Being well travelled: +3
    Being pretty good looking: +2

    Being somewhat unattractive: -2
    Being hideous: -5

    There are so many character traits and behaviors that you can show a woman that will overcome being unattractive. This is just a short list. But I hope it helps.

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    Default Re: Does being interesting count for more than being good looking

    Hi Bro

    That's a pretty long list but I think you're 'spot on'

    Confidence wise it all depends, sometimes I can turn it on and sometimes I'm a 5 but I'm always getting complemented on my great eye contact and my Conversational skills.

    I can talk about anything to anyone and keep on turning and turning it, until I lock on to something that She loves to talk about.

    Then I back off and let her do most of the talking.

    I saw this little ugly dude with this Amazing looking Girl and I didn't get it then and I still don't get it now, what on earth She saw in him, just simply beggars belief.

    But then I guess that attraction isn't a choice.

    Nice reply to this Post

    Many Thanks.
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    Default Re: Does being interesting count for more than being good looking

    All being interesting really means is being confident. If you're confident a woman will think you're interesting or even funny, but she only thinks that way because she's attracted to you. That's why you can know some super boring morons that get hot chicks. They're just confident, and believe they can easily get the girl.

    What dumbfounds me is when I see a guy I know who is a total needy tool bag who does everything wrong but somehow gets an attractive woman. I'm talking the biggest beta you can imagine. This actually happens more often then you think and it's because of two reasons. 1. The woman might be someone who prefers being dominant in the relationship (Likes playing the male role). These are rare among good looking women but some do prefer this dynamic. 2. The guy tries with every girl. If you try to get with every girl who's attractive you'll eventually find one who likes you. It's simple statistics. If you run across 4-5 good looking women everyday and you hit on all of them, that's 1,460-1,825 women a year. Even if you're a major AFC and never learn from your mistakes you'll eventually get a hot chick.

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    Default Re: Does being interesting count for more than being good looking

    Yeah you are right

    But I've also got a Theory, that some Women even the 'Hot' ones, need someone 'anyone' as a sort of Security Blanket, as they really hate the thought of being alone.

    Also even an 'Ugly Guy' can be 'USED' by Her as a Wingman, at least he gets her out of the house and can take her places where hot guys can hit on her, without any competition from her Girlfriends, which means he gets to pay the Bills and run her home at night.

    And then he becomes 'The Mothership' that She can Flirt from.
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    Default Re: Does being interesting count for more than being good looking

    Either can work wonders, but both are a win. Simples


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