Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'
All of my Relations have either lost or are losing their Hair, including Myself, which started with a Bald patch, that started to get bigger, until I started looking like some sort of Monk.
Then before I knew what was happening, I was getting Bullied at Work, with my Workmates teasing me and making every Slap Head joke that you have ever heard.
Those Jokes really hurt me a zapped my Confidence, as they used to tease me right in front of the Girls I used to work with. (Hey if you want a Mirror there's one sitting right over there)
So one day during a Holiday break, I decided to go 'Chrome Dome' 'Jason Statham style' but when compared to the Photos of the time when I had hair, I really thought I was better looking before.
Then I met another Bald Guy who really changed my life and said I had to put the past behind me and to forget all about how I looked before and instead advised me to concentrate more on how I looked now.
He was very generous Spirited and said the most important thing was to accept it 'Own It' and then really 'Rock The Look'
So we had a dress up session round his house.
Black 'T' Shirt, Black Jacket and Blue Jeans and by the time he had finished with me I really looked a 'Bad Ass'
Even a little bit 'Evil'
Then when he put some 'Shades' on me, I looked pretty Scarey I can tell you! and went from looking the nice guy, that I always was into my alter ego, who looked as if he could tear your head off!
From now on, according to him, I was no longer to think of myself as a 'Baldie' but instead as someone who had made a 'lifestyle choice' to cut all my hair off.
In other words he'd given me an image, which I still wasn't sure if I liked and I was scared of going back to work, as I knew that I was going to get some sort of reaction that might even end up crushing me even more.
So before going back I took his advice and with his help I really worked on my 'image' where he helped me to look as 'Bad Ass' as I could possibly be.
It just felt wrong, as I was always a 'Nice Guy' and going back to work that day took every ounce of Courage I could Muster, it was like going on Stage for the very first time and I was absolutely petrified!
As you can imagine, when I walked into the Office the reaction I received really took the roof off, with even much more teasing than I ever got before.
But then after a couple of days when things died down a bit the teasing suddenly stopped, the reason being that some of the Girls were starting to take a bit of an Interest in me.
Even the ones that were going out with some of the other Guys that I worked with.
And before I knew what was happening, I found that I was starting to become the person that I was looking like.
It was almost as if I had 'Morphed' into the Character, like I was acting a part in some sort of Play.
Even my personality changed, as I was being 'Playfully dominant' with some of the Girls, who seemed to be really turned on by it all.
If I could wave a 'Magic Wand' I'm still not sure if I'd rather have my hair back.
And the only kind of clothing that seems to suit me now seems to be 'Black'
I've also tried the 'Stubble look' but not all girls seem to like that.
So still finding my way as a 'Baldie' (sorry I mean a 'Bad Ass')
But why do the Girls take more interest now than they ever did before?
Are 'Bald Men' really Sexy, or is it just me?
The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least