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Thread: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

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    Default Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    All of my Relations have either lost or are losing their Hair, including Myself, which started with a Bald patch, that started to get bigger, until I started looking like some sort of Monk.

    Then before I knew what was happening, I was getting Bullied at Work, with my Workmates teasing me and making every Slap Head joke that you have ever heard.

    Those Jokes really hurt me a zapped my Confidence, as they used to tease me right in front of the Girls I used to work with. (Hey if you want a Mirror there's one sitting right over there)

    So one day during a Holiday break, I decided to go 'Chrome Dome' 'Jason Statham style' but when compared to the Photos of the time when I had hair, I really thought I was better looking before.

    Then I met another Bald Guy who really changed my life and said I had to put the past behind me and to forget all about how I looked before and instead advised me to concentrate more on how I looked now.

    He was very generous Spirited and said the most important thing was to accept it 'Own It' and then really 'Rock The Look'

    So we had a dress up session round his house.

    Black 'T' Shirt, Black Jacket and Blue Jeans and by the time he had finished with me I really looked a 'Bad Ass'

    Even a little bit 'Evil'

    Then when he put some 'Shades' on me, I looked pretty Scarey I can tell you! and went from looking the nice guy, that I always was into my alter ego, who looked as if he could tear your head off!

    From now on, according to him, I was no longer to think of myself as a 'Baldie' but instead as someone who had made a 'lifestyle choice' to cut all my hair off.

    In other words he'd given me an image, which I still wasn't sure if I liked and I was scared of going back to work, as I knew that I was going to get some sort of reaction that might even end up crushing me even more.

    So before going back I took his advice and with his help I really worked on my 'image' where he helped me to look as 'Bad Ass' as I could possibly be.

    It just felt wrong, as I was always a 'Nice Guy' and going back to work that day took every ounce of Courage I could Muster, it was like going on Stage for the very first time and I was absolutely petrified!

    As you can imagine, when I walked into the Office the reaction I received really took the roof off, with even much more teasing than I ever got before.

    But then after a couple of days when things died down a bit the teasing suddenly stopped, the reason being that some of the Girls were starting to take a bit of an Interest in me.

    Even the ones that were going out with some of the other Guys that I worked with.

    And before I knew what was happening, I found that I was starting to become the person that I was looking like.

    It was almost as if I had 'Morphed' into the Character, like I was acting a part in some sort of Play.

    Even my personality changed, as I was being 'Playfully dominant' with some of the Girls, who seemed to be really turned on by it all.

    If I could wave a 'Magic Wand' I'm still not sure if I'd rather have my hair back.

    And the only kind of clothing that seems to suit me now seems to be 'Black'

    I've also tried the 'Stubble look' but not all girls seem to like that.

    So still finding my way as a 'Baldie' (sorry I mean a 'Bad Ass')

    But why do the Girls take more interest now than they ever did before?

    Are 'Bald Men' really Sexy, or is it just me?




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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    I don't hide that. I have receding hair. I keep it short. I have thin hair on top, bald at the crown, and the monk look all around. My attitude is that this f ing rocks. Why? Because it is UNIQUELY masculine. See many women walking with a hairline I describe. I also do the stubble look. I no longer like having a beard. A college guy who is seeing signs of a receding hair line, and whose crown is visibly thin was asking me about this. I said, F it. OWN THAT SHIT. I do. I do own it. I think it is awesome. Why? Because of masculine and feminine traits. Men have had receding hair lines for 100's of thousands of years, if not longer. It is a masculine trait. Period. There is NO biological way to escape this. Samurai's rock the receding hair line with a ponytail out back. Think ANYONE thought of them as not masculine. I don't care if a woman likes long haired rock stars. That is what her conscious mind likes. That is what her friends like. But subconsciously, she sees my receding hair line as masculine. And so long as I am Alpha, she will like it. No shame here AT ALL for a receding hair line. But sunburn on your crown does suck.

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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    Girls like it if you're Bald and don't show that you're insecure about it. In that case you will seem extra sexy because of your confidence over the situation.

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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    Quote Originally Posted by DwayneJ View Post
    Girls like it if you're Bald and don't show that you're insecure about it. In that case you will seem extra sexy because of your confidence over the situation.
    Hi Dwayne

    You are so right!

    But I've known this Older Women for years, who is a Family Friend and although She is quite attractive, She is not my type but does like hanging out with me, because according to her She says She finds me 'Interesting'


    She even tried to 'hit on me' once but I very politely declined her advances, not least because She's a 'Chatterbox' who I know would eventually drive me Crazy!

    Though having said that She is one of those people who draws others towards her, She just makes friends with everyone She meets.

    So I am not ashamed to Say, that I make full use of Her as my 'Wingman' She gets talking to Girls more my type and then I get talking to them and in return it gets her out of the House and also gives her a bit of Social life.

    And She doesn't mind if I chat them up, because She finds that amusing. (don't ask me why I don't know)

    This is the perfect Trade off, as far as I am concerned but even better I am able to talk to her as a 'Mate' because She knows there will never be anything Sexual between us.


    So when I shaved all my hair off, She was the very first person that I showed my 'new look' to, as I knew She wouldn't (BS) me and as such would give me an Honest opinion.

    When I called round her house to pick her up to take Her to a Bar, as my ever trusty 'Wingman' nothing more, the moment She cast eyes on me, She nearly fell over!

    So before we went out I asked her what She thought of my 'New Image'

    When She finally managed to get over the Shock, She told me I looked a real 'Bad Ass' (but was that good or bad?)

    But the one thing She kept on repeating was how dominant I looked, when compared to my nice guy image that I had before and after a couple of glasses of Wine, told me that I really turned her on.

    And while I was tempted to find out how much, I didn't want to take her out of the 'Friend Zone'

    But when we got to the Bar I noticed the difference, I was getting IOI from everywhere but as I still wasn't used to my look, we just spent the evening together drinking and chatting.

    Shaving all your Hair off, takes a lot of getting used to and even after a Month, I'm still feeling Self Concious but my Bald Friend who helped me, assured me that this was a normal reaction and that when I'd forgotten about it, then much better things were sure to come my way.
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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    Entirely subjective, but fair to say that bald guys aren't every gal's cup of tea (ditto hairy guys). Good news is, women are wonderfully varied in their tastes, and generally susceptible to common attractive traits (which may override any personal issues with things like baldness). Think/worry less, be/do more

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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    I'm bald(I shave my head deliberately because I don't want to be the "combover guy"). I would say most women don't care either way that I am bald. I've never noticed it repelling women but then again it's not like any woman has ever said "wow, your bald head makes you sexy" either. So mostly they just seem a bit indifferent to the fact that I'm bald. I can only think of one time when it seemed to work to my advantage. However, I have heard stories about women throwing themselves at guys just because they shave their head. To be honest I don't really believe it. That's never happened to me. Most women don't care one way or another it seems. That being said I think it would probably be more attractive to older women for some reason but I don't think it would be a turn off to most younger women.

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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    Quote Originally Posted by InFullSail.com View Post
    Entirely subjective, but fair to say that bald guys aren't every gal's cup of tea (ditto hairy guys). Good news is, women are wonderfully varied in their tastes, and generally susceptible to common attractive traits (which may override any personal issues with things like baldness). Think/worry less, be/do more
    I mostly agree with this. You can initially not be a woman's type but it's still possible for her to get past her initial reaction to you and create attraction.

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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    Quote Originally Posted by DwayneJ View Post
    Girls like it if you're Bald and don't show that you're insecure about it. In that case you will seem extra sexy because of your confidence over the situation.
    Do you think this applies to guys who shave their heads or just those who look like they are in denial about going bald?

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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    I think shaving your head is just as lame as a combover. People KNOW why you did it. Cut your hair short and rock what nature gave you. THAT shows confidence. Not hiding something.

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    Default Re: Are Bald Guys Really Sexy or is that just a 'Myth'

    Hi OC

    I don't think a Shaved head suits everyone and I don't think a shaved head suits me but after having it all Shaved off, I've started to let it grow back a bit until one day I looked in the mirror and thought to myself 'That's it!' I've just gone and found the perfect length to suit my face.

    Which is not a 'Buzz Cut' but very, very, short.

    And then I worked on the Stubble side of things, where again the 'Stubble Look' did not suit my Face and so I let the Stubble grow a little bit longer, until I achieved the right balance, for my very Short hair, where its just on the edge of being a beard but not quite.

    Then I asked my 'Wing Woman' an older Woman I've known for years what She thought (No sexual interest in her at all) and so I knew that I would get an honest opinion from her.

    She got straight to the point and told me, that I looked the kind of a dominant guy who could handle any situation as well as having the look of a guy that a woman would want to respect.

    That's kind of what I was thinking myself but I'm just too modest to say (Lol)
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