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    Default PUA HELP!

    Guys,

    Been out of the game for a long time and need some pro advixe. I've been talking to this 20 year old chick on text for a long time
    I've helped her out a lot financially and from a mentor stand point.

    Where I say a long time it's been a year or so. It was all cool till one day she started showing me these panties she really wanted on her phone. They were freaking hot as hell. So I told her I'd give her the money if she wanted them. She buys them, sends me texts pica of them on her bed. She has a boy friend this whole time by the way. She tells me that her boyfriend really like them. I really never felt anything before this point by the way but I guess buying them and seeing them made me want more. I tell her I'm jelious and she says I'll show you. A couple of months go by and nothing, one day we are out and shes like let me drive your car, j say okay but I want to see your picturss. She agrees and shows me a ton of half naked photos. She seemed cool but nothing happens after that and she acted like it was perfectly normal for a friend to see the photos.

    Well she keeps texting me and asking for money quite a bit. I've given her money every single time which is a big mistake I think. Now she acts like it's a tease saying things like I'll send you some pictures later. Oh by the way can I get like 40 bucks. I send her money and she never sends anything and actually ignores me for a long time..I feel like I'm being played.

    Than out of the blue were in the car and she starts talkin about her panties again. I ask to see them and she pulls her pants down and rubs it a little. I reach over and start rubbing and she grabs my hand and says I cant. Anyway now she's back to playing again as I said above. Gets me going, asks for money and ignores me. It's like some vicious cycle I can't brakes.

    Anyway, I don't know if I should just give up or if I should just come out and say something. If I do say something.. what?? Is there a way to seal the deal here or am I just a chump in her eyes?

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    You are getting played, and you're going along with the ride. You already know the answer, but you're just not doing what you need to do.

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    I'm just gonna go ahead and state the obvious, but stop paying her to interact with you, if you want laid that bad, just save the money and get a hooker.
    There is no deal for you to seal, what ever chance you had with this girl is long gone. Just walk away, and stay away.
    Unless you're in a long term relationship with a girl you should not be spending money on her, even then you should be careful how much you actually give her.
    Good luck man.

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    Thanks man. I think I knew that. Started the whole money thing as a favor cause we were friends. No idea how it got to this point. I'm outta of it.

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    She is basically a stripper in your life. You are just another chump.

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    the spelling mistakes in that last post are 'whenever' and 'or'.

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    Quote Originally Posted by Dillinger View Post
    I heard that hebever you help someone then unless they are a sociopath or something then they will want to return the favor. I think that when you buy her stuff in her mind she is returning the favor by showing you pictures and stuff. Same thing with buying lap dances at a strip club. The woman feels like she has returned the favor by this small amount of touching ir seeing her. I think what you can do is start helping her out and tell her you dont want anything in return. I think that makes girls wet. When you do stuff just to help them and not expecting anything in return. Something like that.
    This is dangerous territory, if you have any interest in the girl you should not be doing this. If you meet a stranger who needs help, and decide to help them free of charge, that's perfectly fine, cause they'll never see you again, you'll feel good for helping, and not receiving anything, the simplest proof of your genuine heart, and they'll feel good for your help, and they'll also feel good knowing that people like you exist. This is known as paying it forward, this is good.

    However if you see some one on a regular basis, helping them all the time, with out letting them return the favor is a really bad idea because you're playing nice guy games, you do something for them, and since you don't take any payment, they will now 'owe' you, this is fine if there is already attraction, they might just decide to pay you back in affection/sex or what ever. The thing is if there is already attraction, you shouldn't need to do anything for them in the first place. But if there is no attraction, you're just making them feel awkward for owing you things, and if you ever show interest it puts alot of pressure on them to say yes, the average girl, the average person really, does not like this, for obvious reasons.

    The other problem this causes is that some people will take advantage of you, and continue to take your favors, with out any intention of ever repaying you.

    Outside of family, you shouldn't be giving any one money.

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    Ya you're probably right. ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    This is a really difficult one, as a long time ago I went through a stage of having no money myself and count that as being one of my worst experiences.

    So far be it for me to suggest anything that might make her financial situation even worse.

    But I'm wondering why her Boyfriend is not supporting her, as in the grand scheme of things, providing for his girlfriend is really down to him.

    If you want to give her money and can afford to do so, then that is up to you but do not ask for anything in return, instead see yourself as being a very good friend.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least

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    Default Re: PUA HELP!

    Since this is a BS relationship, it couldn't hurt to try some dirty talk. Straight up ask for a blow job, or tell her you are horny, let's fuck. The worst that can happen is she will be done with you. And that is what you want anyway. BUT, it is likely she has you pegged as a chump and it will be a no go. Any other opinions on that approach?


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