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    Default Dance floor game

    THis is something you don't really hear about much. I guess many guys(including expert PUAs)just aren't that good at it because you can't really talk to a girl while dancing. However, I had an experience recently that tells me this is not the case.

    I was out dancing and this girl starts dancing with me. I didn't do much except just dance with her. I don't even think I made much eye contact with her. Then this other dude starts dancing next to her and basically forces eye contact on her. She seems to eat it up and he winds up touching her and they get really physical. This blew my mind because it seemed like just a few seconds before she didn't know this guy and in fact initialy gave me a weird look because of him. This guys dominance however won out and my nonchalant attitude was no match for his alpha behavior.

    Earlier I was dancing with a woman who turned around as if to possibly suggest I could grind on her. I didn't though because I didn't know that's what she was expecting.

    So anyway, I would like to know if there are any good ebooks or programs on dance floor game since I obviously need improvement in this area.

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    Don't take this the wrong way Bro but this is a 'No Brainer'

    There are a couple of things you need to be reminded of, the First one being that girls love Attention, which is almost like a drug as far as they are concerned.

    And so maintaining eye contact, is an absolute Must!

    Never look away no matter what and if you are able to couple that with a Flirty Smile, then it makes that Ten Times more effective.

    The Second most important point, is that you Show Interest,

    She needs to be Convinced beyond doubt that you really like Her and I mean really, really like Her!

    If you are doing a Smootchy dance, just put your arms around her and tell her you find her Sexy.

    This creates Sexual Tension and as a result She may then come on to you even more, where before you know it you are 'Snogging Her Face Off'

    Though in the event you are dancing apart, 'Kino' is just as important.

    Just reach out and touch her on the Shoulder or the Arm and then get right up close to Her and say something like, 'Hey you're a great dancer and I really think your Sexy, then when they play a Smootchy number, just put your arm round her and hold her close.

    On no account lose eye contact, not even for a second and just keep looking and smiling at her, as if you think She's good enough to eat, then you'll have her attention.

    How many guys on that dance floor told her they think She looks SEXY?

    Only you, most guys don't do that and never will.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    So I'm supposed to look at her the whole time I am dancing(fast dancing)with her? Even if she is barely looking at me? If I'm looking at her way more than she is looking at me won't that be perceived as needy and her having the higher value?

    They don't tell her she looks sexy because it looks needy and makes you seem desperate unless you wait a while to do it after you get ioi's. I kind of get what you saying but it seems like it's the kind of thing that takes a while to heat up unless you are some kind of expert. Sorry to say I disagree with the part about staring at her too although maybe initially it might be ok like the guy in my op did it to force eye contact.

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    Hi Mike

    Its not staring at her, its engaging with her and letting her know that you find her attractive, as sometimes the music can be so loud that any conversation can be very difficult, so you have to convey attraction in different ways to suit the situation.

    If She is barely looking at you, then this could be a sign that maybe She just wants to dance and nothing more but if you get the chance to talk to her and She is engaging with you, then its always good to smile with your eyes.

    This could be what happened with the guy who blew you out, who seemed to know the way to get her attention and attention is the thing all women love.
    The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    Quote Originally Posted by Mike413 View Post

    I was out dancing and this girl starts dancing with me. I didn't do much except just dance with her. I don't even think I made much eye contact with her. Then this other dude starts dancing next to her and basically forces eye contact on her. She seems to eat it up and he winds up touching her and they get really physical. This blew my mind because it seemed like just a few seconds before she didn't know this guy and in fact initialy gave me a weird look because of him. This guys dominance however won out and my nonchalant attitude was no match for his alpha behavior.

    ...

    So anyway, I would like to know if there are any good ebooks or programs on dance floor game since I obviously need improvement in this area.
    There isn't any. There are plenty out there, but mostly they suck.

    Did you even touch her at all? It sounds to me like you weren't even engaged with her.

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    Quote Originally Posted by Jironasaurus View Post
    There isn't any. There are plenty out there, but mostly they suck.

    Did you even touch her at all? It sounds to me like you weren't even engaged with her.
    No, I wasn't because other than her taking the iniative to dance in front of me I didn't really get any ioi's(ie no eye contact).

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    So based on what you are saying, it sounds like you aren't really dancing with each other. More of... you were dancing, and she was doing her own thing, but in front of you, right?

    Here's what I think.

    She might have had an interest in dancing with you.

    You, lacking the experience, failed to be proactive. When she gave you that weird eye regarding that guy (I am assuming that weird eye wasn't for you instead), it was a sign for you to take action. To take her away from him.

    You didn't that. Instead, you continued doing your thing. What you should have done... was to engage her.

    Eye contact first, challenge her to/draw her in for a dance with non verbals, then escalate.

    That was basically what the guy did.

    After that, it was really just a case of riding on the momentum, and leading her to some place where you guys can talk.

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    You are right on all counts. When she gave me that look that could have been the "help me eyes" but I'm not entirely sure. You are right that I don't have much experience.

    Do you think motioning her to come closer while on the dance floor(or even in general)is a good idea?

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    Follow your gut instinct.

    And yes, it's a good idea to motion her to move closer towards you, BUT...

    ... before you do that, you must make sure you are having fun. If you aren't, no one's going to move towards you, no matter what you do.

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    Default Re: Dance floor game

    Honestly, you don't need ebooks for this crap, you're already learning the basics yourself and will pick up the rest as you go along. Listen to instinct (but know your limits), and move with the music. Simples!


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