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Thread: Lmr or what?

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    Default Lmr or what?

    Hey puas, I am have been practicing game for a some odd months hardcore and results are amazing. But like any other I have some sticking points. One of my major sticking points is actually being able to get the girl to meet up and have sex. I create attraction and everything and they agree on it, but as soon as I go to schedule a date they just shut me out. They change the subject or stop talking to me for a couple hours then start again after pretending it never happened. Is this a case of LMR or what? It's happened with multiple girls and just happened to me with 2 others in the last hour. The attraction is still there but they just won't pull the trigger. Any advice?

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    Default Re: Lmr or what?

    Ask yourself this.

    What would make you do the same thing to a girl? Hypothetically.

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    Default Re: Lmr or what?

    If I didn't like her, or if I feel I don't know her enough to take that step I guess

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    Default Re: Lmr or what?

    That's your answer right there.

    To add on, no woman is going to resist an extremely desirable man. You're just not that in their eyes.

    If it's the latter, you asked for a date too soon. Time to start working on getting them to trust you more.

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    Default Re: Lmr or what?

    Like I said it's not the attraction that's the problem. They are the ones who approach me most of the time. And they are the ones who sexualize the conversation.

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    Default Re: Lmr or what?

    Gotta stop seeing attraction as a one stop solution. It doesn't make you irresistible. Having attraction is very different from being extremely desirable.

    One gets interest, the other sparks a biological response. Their interest in you just might not be enough to get them out so soon.

    Also, read my response again. Trust is important as well. Them sexualizing the conversation just means they are open to the possibility, doesn't mean they are good to go.

    Think about it from their point of view:

    "Okay, I like this guy, but do I want to meet him yet? Maybe not... let's see what he's all about first."


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