Re: height issues
Height has got nothing to do with it and so you mustn't keep thinking of yourself as being Short, instead regard yourself as being Normal.
Confidence and Personality are what most girls go for and just as important in my view, the ability to have great conversation, if you have any doubt about that, just look at the Adverts that girls put on Dating Sites.
'Must be able to hold a Conversation'
They won't regard you as being Short any more than they regard Bald guys as being Bald.
But maybe you have something that money cannot buy and that is called 'Charisma'
If you've got that you've nailed it and are in a league of your own, that every guy of any height would wish that they could join.
The Power in a Relationship always goes to the one who cares the least