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    Default Is Smoking a deal breaker?

    Ok hands up, a long time ago I used to smoke myself but decided to give it up, as after giving it some thought, I thought that it was pointless as well as being a total waste of money.

    But I recently went to a Party, rocking my 'semi bald look' and after making eye contact with this hot looking girl, it wasn't long until we were smootching away.

    Until a quick kiss had the hallmarks of suddenly turning into an enjoyable snogging session, except for one thing and that was the horrible taste that you get with a Smoker.

    Which there really was no way I could put up with and so instead of getting into her as much as I normally would, I kept the kissing to an absolute minimum.

    I have got her number and She made it very clear to me that She would be up for a date.

    But that Smoking is a 'Deal Breaker' which is a really crying shame, as apart from that She's seems just my type.

    Has anyone else had that problem and how did they deal with it?
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    Default Re: Is Smoking a deal breaker?

    Interestingly enough, I actually said this on the first date with my current girlfriend.

    I said, "Ya know one thing I realized about certain smokers... they have this breath that comes up from their throat from too much smoking. Makes kissing really bad."

    She quit smoking that very night.

    Took about 1.5 months for the smell to clear completely.

    Alternatively, bring mints all the time, and offer it to the girl.

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    Default Re: Is Smoking a deal breaker?

    Hi Jironasaurus

    I'll have to have a word with her about it and ask if She would consider giving it up, not only for the good of her health but in order to see why I've won prizes for kissing (Lol)

    If She takes offence at that then I will just move on, as there is no way I can Kiss her tasting like that.
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    Default Re: Is Smoking a deal breaker?

    Don't ask if they would consider giving it up. People will be ready to do so when they want to. It's always on their own terms.

    But what you can do is to tell them that it is potentially a problem for the both of you.

    Good luck with the lady!

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    Default Re: Is Smoking a deal breaker?

    Yes you are right and I am not going to text her about it but I'll tell her face to face and hopefully cushion it with my sense of humor, so as not to try and hurt her feelings.
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