I am current law student who is frustrated with his love life. I have had relationships in the past, however I have a certain type of woman that I am attracted to, who I have never seem to get. I have no clue why, they just don't seem into me. It could be my fault, however I am not sure. I recent years I have read a few books on how to pick up women such as "Bang", "The Game" (I know its not totally a how to, but Ive tried some of the stuff) and Ive kinda tried the Neil Strauss's "30 day challenge". Although I haven't completed it as some of the tasks are quite intimidating, though I would like to complete it someday.
Also the last month has been horrible for me interms of my bar game. I have gone up to a lot of random women and started conversations, only either gain nothing from it, or see them start to hit on my friends. Any way My question is this: Do any of these tricks really work? Or is it more of a way to show confidence? Also how much do looks really factor into a girls decisions on who to sleep with? Also what am I doing wrong that is preventing me from getting the type of ladies I want? I know these are very broad questions. So feel free to ask me anything to help with crafting any advice you may have.
Ps In essence I am lost and would love some guidance!